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The penis poll

Being totally honest - this is how I view penis sizes

  • I am Female, I prefer smaller than average

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Its well documented in peer reviewed literature.

Baseline dimensions of the human vagina -- Barnhart et al. 21 (6): 1618 -- Human Reproduction

Birth weights also tend to be lower with asian babies, higher with black babies. Penis sizes are statistically smaller with asians, larger with blacks.

"Well-documented in peer-reviewed literature" does not mean this:

Seventy-seven MRI scans were performed on 28 women

The ethnic distribution of the participants was as follows: 17 were Caucasians, eight African-Americans, two Hispanic and one Asian/Pacific Islander.

This piece may have been well-reviewed, but it's hardly a large sample size and/or well-documented. Lulz.

Bars are an excellent place to witness this. Its not like guys are making out with other guys to provoke a heterosexual female response.

That's because men don't use sexuality to appeal to women, for the most part. Women are acculturated to do so. Women, especially young women these days, have been programmed to perform sexually. Look at the media, darling. Sex sells. Men buy it.

Mix women and alcohol, and you will see it a lot with them. Most women out there have at some point "experimented" with other women in some way.

Oh, you poor thing. You actually believe the act. Women are cruel like that.
 
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My penis is larger than average and I'm perfectly happy about that. ;) I don't think size matters too much though. Many people will settle for average...
 
Bars are an excellent place to witness this. Its not like guys are making out with other guys to provoke a heterosexual female response. Mix women and alcohol, and you will see it a lot with them. Most women out there have at some point "experimented" with other women in some way.


I would put every penny I own down on a bet that there are a larger percentage of men turned on by the act of two women doing things together than there are women turned on by the act of two men doing it.

Do you disagree?

If not, then your anecdote doesn't work to well to disprove Catz point, because guys not doing it in a bar doesn't mean that women aren't just doing it for a reaction.
 
I agree with this. Though I'd say girth is more important than length.

There's a quote an insatiable female colleague likes to repeat if given the opportunity.

- "long and thin slides right in - nice and thick does the trick"
 
I think men view their penis size about the same as women view their breast size. They think bigger is better.
 
Women: aside from the physical needs, does the "sight" of a larger package get your motor running like boobs get men's going?
 
"Well-documented in peer-reviewed literature" does not mean this:

Seventy-seven MRI scans were performed on 28 women



This piece may have been well-reviewed, but it's hardly a large sample size and/or well-documented. Lulz.

Its peer reviewed. It carries more weight than your opinion. Moreover, just google it, this is well documented in medicine.

That's because men don't use sexuality to appeal to women, for the most part. Women are acculturated to do so. Women, especially young women these days, have been programmed to perform sexually. Look at the media, darling. Sex sells. Men buy it.

Of course, but chicks making out with chicks when they are drunk is not just them performing for men. Maybe your just prudish on this one...

Oh, you poor thing. You actually believe the act. Women are cruel like that.

Another study:

"Taken together, these results suggest that women's sexuality differs from men and emphasize the need for researchers to develop a model of the development and organization of female sexuality independent from models of male sexuality," she said.



The study's four authors include Bailey and three graduate students in Northwestern's psychology department, Chivers, Gerulf Rieger and Elizabeth Latty.



"Since most women seem capable of sexual arousal to both sexes, why do they choose one or the other?" Bailey asked. "Probably for reasons other than sexual arousal."


Study Suggests Difference Between Female And Male Sexuality
 
Women: aside from the physical needs, does the "sight" of a larger package get your motor running like boobs get men's going?

I'd venture to guess that will vary from woman to woman. The sight of a penis really doesn't turn me on at all. It's not exactly an attractive piece of equipment. :lol:

I will admit to my eyes being drawn to bulges in men's pants now and then, though. ;)

But, I'm mostly looking at chest/arms/ass when checking out a guy's body.
 
For most women, bigger is better. The average erect penis size for an adult male is 5.3 inches. If you have 7 inches or more, than you are in the top 10%, 8 inches or more and you are in the top 5%. Over 8 inches and you are in the top .1% of adult men.

I must just know some exceptional people because I have rarely every seen a penis under six and a half to seven inches.

As for me, being a gay guy, it has to be comparable to mine for me to even want to bother.
 
The simple fix for this situation, is for women to tighten up their Va Jay jay. I have known some that could crack walnuts. and others where it was like tappin a basketball.
 
The simple fix for this situation, is for women to tighten up their Va Jay jay. I have known some that could crack walnuts. and others where it was like tappin a basketball.

That's really not going to help with the whole length issue, dear. ;) It *could* help with girth, but even then you still have women with different sized vaginas. Just a simple fact.
 
The simple fix for this situation, is for women to tighten up their Va Jay jay. I have known some that could crack walnuts. and others where it was like tappin a basketball.

This isn't going to help those of us who are on the small side and tight already. :roll: Which leads me to believe that your sample size is small.
 
My wife (hey BamaBrat if you're lurking :lol: ) will probably hate that I'm admitting to this, but it's no secret to her. Still, she needs to know I'm not bragging, just sharing my experience and putting this size issue into perspective based on those experiences.

As a former 16 yr Navy veteran, I've been all over the world, seen many different places, and, of course, had more than my fair share of women. There are two things I can say with absolute certainty on this matter, and they are:

1) Most women really don't care about how large a man is or the girth of his package. All they care about is: a) how much do you consider her needs, and b) how well can you work what you've got?

2) A big **** may penetrate deep and hit all the right spots, but unless and until the (your) woman is ready to be taken that way, all you're really going to do is hurt her. And as my wife has told me several times (Hey, BamaBrat...I love you, sweetheart...just in case you're still lurking :mrgreen:), "if it's uncomfortable and painful, it's not enjoyable." Her first husband was well endowed, but she tells me he really didn't know how to use what he had. (And if you knew him you'd know this right off! :doh) He'd penetrate deep long before she was ready and it would hurt.

To this, my wife agrees with Catz in that not all women are the same. Some prefer a man who is very well endowed in order to have that all encumbasing, body shaking orgasm, while others prefer a man of average size and girth and can reach that point of pleasure all the same. My experience has confirmed this as I am of average size. But never has any woman I've ever been with ever informed me that I wasn't able to satisfy her. It all really depends on how well you know the woman you're with, what turns her on, what really takes her over the edge, and how well do we as men use what we've got no matter our size.

Now, here's a secret for both the men and women out there reading this but mostly for the women (my wife is really gonna kill me for saying this, but here goes...), if your guy is of average size and you really have a difficult time reaching that point of pleasure, consider bringing sex toys into your love life. Believe me when I say, it will change your sex life DRAMATICALLY!

I think even those women who prefer a small or average **** size can appreciate deep penetration from time to time. Hence, dildos anyone? :mrgreen: But fellas, you gotta let her "dick"tate what you do with it. Take careful note of what I just said here, fellas...

Now for a moment of honesty...

I use to be embarrased about using sex toys during our lovemaking. No matter how many times my wife would say it, I'd still think, "How in the world can I compete with that 9" piece of plastic that can make her body spasm uncontrollably like that when all I've got is this?" But then my wife told me something I'll never forgot....

"It's not about how big you are; it's about what you do with what you've got. And any sex toy we bring into our lovemaking only adds to the pleasure I receive while we're making love, never detracts from it. The toys are really an extension of you because of the emotions I feel for you. They're only heightened when we use 'our friends' (as we like to call her pleasure devices...)"

Foreplay plays a major role in all of this. So, if you think you're just going to "lick it and stick it, hit it and quit it," and then move on, boy have you got another thing coming. Take your time with her. Don't rush it. When she's ready, she'll let you know. But overall, if you as a man know how to use what you've got and you've got stamina, even as an average sized guy you're gonna make her toes curl and her hands grip the sheets...



...often. :)
 
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I am rather large in both departments and it is was a bane and a boon all at the same time.

Fortunately my wife ahhhh got used to it, lol. She had said she was scared of it at first though.

So from personal experience I can say all are different, but size be it large or small does matter. It is not always in a good way either.
 
Bars are an excellent place to witness this. Its not like guys are making out with other guys to provoke a heterosexual female response. Mix women and alcohol, and you will see it a lot with them. Most women out there have at some point "experimented" with other women in some way.

Maybe in some backwoods dumps, but not in any place I've frequented.

I have a friend who thinks it turns guys on when she pretends to be bi. If thats what she need to get attention, whatever. When I was single, I could hook one with my eyes. Frankly, that's really all it takes. You don't have to cheapen yourself (assuming you're not really bi).
 
Maybe in some backwoods dumps, but not in any place I've frequented.

I have a friend who thinks it turns guys on when she pretends to be bi. If thats what she need to get attention, whatever. When I was single, I could hook one with my eyes. Frankly, that's really all it takes. You don't have to cheapen yourself (assuming you're not really bi).

Yeah but for some reason it really does seem to turn on women when they find out you are gay. I dunno if its a challenge thing or what but I wish men would pay as much attention to me as women do...
 
I am Female, I prefer larger than average or... as large as I can get them
Middleground, RightinNYC <!~~~~~ :giggle:
 
Yeah but for some reason it really does seem to turn on women when they find out you are gay. I dunno if its a challenge thing or what but I wish men would pay as much attention to me as women do...

I absolutely adore gay guys, but I don't think it's necessarily because they are gay. I think it's because gays take astounding care of themselves and it shows. The bodies. The hair. The skin. The clothes. The shoes!! Roll that into a guy that you can sit in the corner and giggle with, and it's freaking heaven.

eta: Most gay guys I know are exceptionally polite as well. I just cannot get enough of a gentleman.
 
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When I was single, I could hook one with my eyes. Frankly, that's really all it takes.

God, you sound like my wife while she's listening to the latest Tiger Woods type story. Her favorite line is, "Guys are so easy." :3oops:
 
God, you sound like my wife while she's listening to the latest Tiger Woods type story. Her favorite line is, "Guys are so easy." :3oops:

Ha! I don't think it's a matter of being so easy that you're desperate. At least I hope not. :unsure13: I just figure you hit 'em with a look and walk away. The rest of the evening gets real interesting after that. :nails
 
My needs are really specific. A guy's penis can't be much longer than 6" or he's going to penetrate too deep and hurt me. But, if he's smaller than 5", he's not going to hit "the spot." If he isn't thick enough, it's not going to be that great for me, but if he's too thick, he isn't going to fit. I'm smallish.

And the spot is weird. My ex-husband never hit it in 12 years, my current boyfriend has THE PERFECT PENIS and hits it every time.

He's not exceptionally large, but he's just right...for me. But it's all about having a specific shape & tilt.

I think he thinks I'm just blowing smoke up his ass when I tell him that he has a perfect penis, but I really mean it. :D

^^^
This could be me too, except the part about the ex-husband. Mine hit the spot just fine, but for some reason it feels totally different with my current BF. He literally does have the perfect penis for me and not just for intercourse either.
 
Yeah but for some reason it really does seem to turn on women when they find out you are gay. I dunno if its a challenge thing or what but I wish men would pay as much attention to me as women do...
Is it really them being turned on, though? I mean, are they trying to get into your pants? In my experience, it's just been that gay men are attractive to women to hang out with and talk to because they're *safe*. You can let your guard down, you don't have to constantly worry about inadvertently leading them on, AND, you can get inside scoop info about men.

Ha! I don't think it's a matter of being so easy that you're desperate. At least I hope not. :unsure13: I just figure you hit 'em with a look and walk away. The rest of the evening gets real interesting after that. :nails
That's right about what I would do when I was younger and on the prowl. Give them a look, maybe look them up and down just a teeny bit, a small mischievous smile, then go back to talking to your friends, dancing, playing pool, whatever.
 
That's right about what I would do when I was younger and on the prowl. Give them a look, maybe look them up and down just a teeny bit, a small mischievous smile, then go back to talking to your friends, dancing, playing pool, whatever.

You gals are baaaad! That's the game my wife played in the office before we met. And here we always think it is "us" who do the stalking, like cave men. And all along it's you baiting the hook. :giggle:
 
Aren't options one and three basically saying the same thing?
I think the options are all a little screwy.
 
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