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The penis poll

Being totally honest - this is how I view penis sizes

  • I am Male, I wish I was larger than average

    Votes: 8 15.1%

  • I am Male, I am larger than average but wish I was smaller

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • I am Male, I am smaller than average and wish I was average or larger

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • I am Female, I prefer average

    Votes: 4 7.5%

  • I am Female, I prefer smaller than average

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I am Female, I prefer larger than average or... as large as I can get them

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • Other -- explain

    Votes: 32 60.4%
  • Total voters
    53
1069 said:
Agreed; I work with a girl who told me once that she never takes off her shirt when she has sex with her boyfriend, because she doesn't want him to see how fat she is.
She's not even fat; she's a cute 21-year-old.
I mean, Jesus Christ, can you imagine trying to have sex with somebody who is lying there stiffly and awkwardly in a shirt and bra, trying to make no overt moves so that her alleged "fat" doesn't jiggle? :lol:
At least that's the mental image I got when she told me about that.

I can't help thinking her boyfriend probably wouldn't mind if she gained twenty pounds, if only she'd gain some confidence along with it.
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There are a large segment of guys who like what is maybe wrongly call "chubbs."

I think it's wrong because the girls in reference aren't chubby, they are healthy weight.
I find that particularly attractive myself and think it's terrible that women slim down to nothingness on purpose.
 
Fiddytree said:
Body image is a huge problem for both sexes. No doubt about it. Call me a romantic and a bit of a prude, but I have little interest in the spread of such anxieties-to a degree, including stamina. Intimidation is intimidation, despite our preferences. But folks call me the nice guy, so that's my own personal angle. :)
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I don't like it much either, it sets an unreasonable standard to live up to.
I mean most guys will never have a goliath dong no matter how much we want it.

Being a nice guy has it's pluses and minuses.
You(and I) are the people that the pretty girls go to after they realize that chasing bad boys will yield no positive results.
 
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My nickname ain't Moby Dick fo nuttin'...:mrgreen:
 
Harry Guerrilla said:
I don't like it much either, it sets an unreasonable standard to live up to.
I mean most guys will never have a goliath dong no matter how much we want it.

Being a nice guy has it's pluses and minuses.
You(and I) are the people that the pretty girls go to after they realize that chasing bad boys will yield no positive results.
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I think it was healthy that the dialog on many fronts has decreased regarding the size argument, and has settled for that happy 'average' desirability. It may have been a strange social phenomenon where the women were rebelling against the men demanding bigger breasts...a sort of "me too!" aspect. Or perhaps that was an incredibly simplistic way of thinking about it, the way I just said that. Not sure, haven't had the specialist mind of the sociologist or the psychologist. Some people genuinely feel that way about what they want, which is fine. I mostly become concerned when the atmosphere completely becomes about such things, when those who pursue the so-called "good life" would be feeling further on the periphery.

I would caution against becoming bitter about it though. That also has the side-effects of being seen ironically self-centered and egocentric. For myself, I concentrate on myself and getting to where I need to. I cannot spend much time being bitter towards others.
 
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Fiddytree said:
I think it was healthy that the dialog on many fronts has decreased regarding the size argument, and has settled for that happy 'average' desirability. It may have been a strange social phenomenon where the women were rebelling against the men demanding bigger breasts...a sort of "me too!" aspect. Or perhaps that was an incredibly simplistic way of thinking about it, the way I just said that. Not sure, haven't had the specialist mind of the sociologist or the psychologist. Some people genuinely feel that way about what they want, which is fine. I mostly become concerned when the atmosphere completely becomes about such things, when those who pursue the so-called "good life" would be feeling further on the periphery.

I would caution against becoming bitter about it though. That also has the side-effects of being seen ironically self-centered and egocentric.
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I snagged a great woman at a very young age and over game the being the perpetual nice guy to fall back on.
The situation, though, was a observation made prior to that.
 
I mostly came to the conclusion any lack of success could be my fault, so had little cause to become bitter. :mrgreen:
 
Fiddytree said:
I mostly came to the conclusion any lack of success could be my fault, so had little cause to become bitter. :mrgreen:
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You can do it.
Confidence makes up for a lot of other personal faults you may have.

I decided one day that going for 3rd,4th and 5th best was not for me any longer.
It worked on my second attempt. :cool:
 
Kali said:
A lot of black guys love white women and black women too.. What a silly comment:)
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Geez, funny generalizations are lost in here. Of course thats true. However, a lot of black guys do just love asians.
 
Dav said:
Other: this is a public poll about penis size, do you really expect to get accurate results?
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I am wanting to get to know USA-1 a bit better after this poll.. :2razz:
 
Never mind the length, feel the quality!
 
SouthernDemocrat said:
Geez, funny generalizations are lost in here. Of course thats true. However, a lot of black guys do just love asians.
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Yeah. like Tiger Woods's dad. And look where that got him.
 
As Robin Williams once stated when asked if penis size matters, honey you can't churn butter with a toothpick!
 
Where does the data come from.has anyone here been part of a survey where they actually measure your penis when erect?
 
Ockham said:
Don't be too serious with this folks It's a fun poll...

First let's baseline - most experts agree that an average human male's erect penis length is between 6.2 to 6.4 inches long, and approximately 5.0 inches in circumference (that's 161 mm and 127 mm respectively for metric users).

After a discussion with my significant other a comment was made that "average" is best, and while that was flattering and though it was a "nice" thing to say at the time, I thought it wasn't totally honest. I would suggest that most men, no matter their size would gladly be larger - in fact, many would sell their souls to have to roll it up or be forced to strap it to their legs. Women on the other hand, as the cliché goes - says size doesn't matter but my argument is this:

Biologically (of which I know little about Biology), men and women are attracted to each other by a set of genetic universal virtues. We are attracted to each other not only chemically but by symmetry of their faces, locations of eyes, nose, mouth, teeth. Length of necks, bust sizes, shapes of our butts, women's hips (larger for child rearing). Women are attracted to men who have broad shoulders, strong necks, chiselled facial features, muscular and athletic for not only protection but for their ability to hunt/fish/provide.

Granted, modern society/culture has skewed these ingrained traits, however I say these things are still there and as we see in animals for example; the largest elk with the biggest rack of antlers wins the right to mate. This is the same in humans and I say the large well developed man, with the largest penis in this case, will win the most women and the right to mate more often. Granted we humans are by and large monogamous - this has caused women to adopt and believe that "average is good" and while physically too large of a penis can be painful, and too small not enjoyable... there is an average range between 5.5 and 7.5 that seems to be the sweet spot.


Cut to the chase section:

So here it is...

Is average honestly right where women want their men? Men, given the choice (hypothetically) is average just right or if there was a sure-fire guaranteed option, or wouldn't you like another bit? And yes, this is always a "man" thing - so obsessed with size and doubt of our performance or abilities, but what man hasn't had at some point in their life doubts? Women have self confidence problems about everything - can't men have just one self confidence issue?
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I've been with only a few different men - not many. My husband is by far the largest of them all - He is 9" long and 8.5" in diameter. Do I prefer this?

You bet your sweet ass I do.

But did I know this when we first were involved with eachother? Absolutely not.

He had to warn me before the first time. That's right - he had to warn me that he was 'a bit much' :D Pleasantly - he deploys often - so I get to revisit this 'first time' sensation quite often.

HOWEVER! The more important thing is that he's not 18 - he KNOWS how to use it. He's older than me by 11 years and the age gap has wisdom benefits. If he was my age with less sex-time it wouldn't be as much fun.

So - being *good* is more important than being *well hung* and fortune be for the woman who has the pleasure of the two.

From things he's told me, however - it sounds like not everyone he's been with actually appreciated him. In fact - it was a very negative thing in his previous relationship (jsut before we met) so obviously not all women like the length or the size . . . so we're a perfect match and it's not for everyone.
 
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i think it's worth noting that guys point of view is a bit skewed; the view of our own penis' is at such an angle as to make it appear smaller than it is. women, you might imagine what it would be like if you woke up tomorrow and all the mirrors in your house had been replaced with trick mirrors that added about 15lbs.

as for me, my wife seems to have no problems, i wish we were both better - naturally - but with two small kids and a busy job, it's going to be a few years yet before we can spend alot of time hammering (hah!) that down. from my observation, whether she get's off or not has at least as much if not more to do with her than with me.
 
liblady said:
size does matter, sorry, but average is just fine. i didn't know men were obsessed with this.......
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Men obsessed, ever heard of breast augmentations?
 
American said:
Men obsessed, ever heard of breast augmentations?
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Absolutely!

I kid you not - last year I stopped dieting and working out because my husband commented that 'you're certainly losing weight, your boobs are getting a little smaller." I was truly mortified by that.

I'm ok now - I'll look much better if I'm overall thinner and a little smaller anyway. But I advised him not to point it out - it would be the same as his unit actually shrinking, psychologically. I think he understood that quite clearly.
 
my girlfriend has a small hole, and im slightly above average and she complains every now and then, and it sucks because i always thought it was a good thing :(
 
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