I am Male, I wish I was larger than average
I am Male, I am larger than average but wish I was smaller
I am Male, I am smaller than average and wish I was average or larger
I am Female, I prefer average
I am Female, I prefer smaller than average
I am Female, I prefer larger than average or... as large as I can get them
Other -- explain
I have never measured my penis or done any research or whatever to find out what the average is and how I compare. I must be one of few according to most people I have this conversation with, which isn't many, but I'm sure they are lying.
Size DOES matter, but only in extremes. If a woman tells you that size doesn't matter then she's either lying, doesn't get off at all during intercourse, or it just doesn't take anything to get her off during intercourse.
For most women, size DOES matter. But not the way you guys think it does. Women come in different shapes and sizes too, not to mention different requirements to get off.
For some women, average size will be too big. For some, it will be too small.
If a man is smaller than average, I'm not likely going to even really feel him inside me. So there's no way I can say that size doesn't matter. That would be an outright lie. And yes, I've experienced the ole, "Is it in yet?"
If a man is larger than average, that will likely work out well *for me*. I happen to require deep penetration to get off during intercourse. However, I don't require intercourse to get off. Most men are average, of course. So I'm quite aware that most men are not going to be physically capable of hitting the spot I need hitting. But as long as he's willing and able to do something ELSE to get me off... then the ole 'it doesn't matter' does come into play. And, as long as he's average, (and has any amount of skill whatsoever) I can still very much enjoy intercourse. I'm just not going to climax.
If a guy is much larger than average, that can be a real issue. I've experienced that as well. It really pretty much sucks. It just plain hurts like a mofo and there's not much enjoyment to be had. Not for me, and not for him much either since he's going to have to hold back on his thrusts to keep me from being in agony. I've actually had to stop a guy before because I just couldn't take the pain any longer. I can see all of you guys nodding your head and thinking, "Oh YEAH... that's what I want! A dick so big it makes them scream in pain!" But seriously? You actually want a dick so big that no one wants or enjoys having sex with you? What would be the point?
I've also had a guy who was HUGE in girth. I **** you not, when I grabbed a hold of it, I thought I had something the size of a soda can. We never hooked up again.
So in short, it's really only the extremes that matter. And, even if you do come up a little short for your particular partner, as long as you're willing to explore other ways to get her off, it's probably not going to matter too much to her.
And the spot is weird. My ex-husband never hit it in 12 years, my current boyfriend has THE PERFECT PENIS and hits it every time.
He's not exceptionally large, but he's just right...for me. But it's all about having a specific shape & tilt.
I think he thinks I'm just blowing smoke up his ass when I tell him that he has a perfect penis, but I really mean it.
Last edited by Catz Part Deux; 03-19-10 at 09:15 AM.
I think what rivratt is saying is that to her most guys are just throwing a hotdog down a hallway.
Where's the option "I am male and happy with what I have"?
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