Feed them for a while, but leave if they don't step up soon
Expand relief operations to include rebuilding and upgrading
Option 2, then hold a plebiscite afterwards to determine their future
"A nation can survive its fools, and even the ambitious. But it cannot survive treason from within. An enemy at the gates is less formidable, for he is known and carries his banner openly. But the traitor moves amongst those within the gate freely, his sly whispers rustling through all the alleys, heard in the very halls of government itself. For the traitor appears not a traitor; he speaks in accents familiar to his victims, and he wears their face and their arguments, he appeals to the baseness that lies deep in the hearts of all men. He rots the soul of a nation, he works secretly and unknown in the night to undermine the pillars of the city, he infects the body politic so that it can no longer resist. A murder is less to fear"
Cicero Marcus Tullius
Catz, you're barking up the wrong tree in looking to France and Spain to provide all the resources for rebuilding Haiti. Both certainly have historic culpability in their treatment of the place but to say that Spain (who ceased any involvement with Haiti in 1697) and France (1810) should shoulder sole (or dual) responsibility would make all former colonial powers responsible for all problems in former colonies. It's just not workable.
To those who think the US should take over I'd say, go ahead provided a) the Haitians vote for it and b) your Congress agrees to it on the basis of full equality of treatment for Haiti as for any other state. I suspect that neither of these would happen however.
As for this belief, often expressed on DP, that the US is the only country committing real aid to Haiti, that couldn't be further from the truth. I don't know how much the US government has pledged (originally $100m, but I think this may have gone up) but the EU has pledged $575m in relief and reconstruction aid. This does not include the $450m France alone has pledged. This is neither insignificant nor half-hearted. In addition there have been thousands of volunteers and military personnel from dozens of different countries digging people out from under buildings, treating the injured, feeding the displaced and beginning to fix things up. The US ain't the only ones helping.
"The crisis will end when fear changes sides" - Pablo Iglesias Turrión
"Austerity is used as a cover to reconfigure society and increase inequality and injustice." - Jeremy Corbyn
Let's make them the 51st state.
Get to hell out of there, of course.