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Have you ever been pursued while being married?

What would you do if pursued while married?

  • I have been pursued, and while I was tempted, I walked away.

    Votes: 12 48.0%

  • Since being married(or in a long term relationship) I have never been pursued

    Votes: 4 16.0%

  • I haven't been pursued, and if I was, and the person was hot, I'd probably cheat

    Votes: 1 4.0%

  • other-explain

    Votes: 8 32.0%
  • Total voters
    25
Whip Comes Down said:
Some hot chick is always trying to get into my pants.
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Like these hot chicks? That's sick man
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niftydrifty said:
I still can't believe that something like that happened to me. I'm not all that particularly good looking, but I guess I'm pretty silly, yet also serious, in a yin/yang kinda way, which some people go for.

Right after that all happened, my marriage got better and we had our son. It's weird how when you're in the midst of turbulence it doesn't feel like things are ever going to get better, but they can if you work on it.

The funny thing was my wife knew all about it and I didn't even have to tell her. She just 'sensed' it. In fact, she senses everything. I married someone even more amazing than the work woman.
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I am in awe of your candor and your apparent high level of character. It made my day to read your story. Thanks!:)
 
I knew it would be almost over the top, but tasteful, direct, and honest.:thumbs::)
 
Strucky said:
I had a female co-worker virtually stalk me for months even though she knew I was married....It was 4 years before I actually said more than 2-3 words to her.She kept seeking me out for about 2 weeks,then she got laid off....But it did not stop there.

She would show up during every break and hound me down,even bringing her kids.It got to the point where I would hide in a different part of the plant just to get away from her.After about 2 months of successfully avoiding her,she gave up.
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Nothing worse than a persistent female stalker Strucky. I had that happen to a friend.
 
EnigmaO01 said:
Nothing worse than a persistent female stalker Strucky. I had that happen to a friend.
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Yeah, I've been a little surprised reading through some of these posts at how it seems that women have generally become more aggressive and obsessive these days (when it comes to pursuing men) than they were when I was young. I don't know if that's a good thing, a bad thing, or insignificant. :confused: It just appears to be much different.
 
lizzie said:
Yeah, I've been a little surprised reading through some of these posts at how it seems that women have generally become more aggressive and obsessive these days (when it comes to pursuing men) than they were when I was young. I don't know if that's a good thing, a bad thing, or insignificant. :confused: It just appears to be much different.
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It's all this empowerment of females stuff. If men can stalk, women can stalk JUST AS WELL!
 
It always the same: some lady meets me and is instantly repulsed by my demeanor and how I come across on the first impression. Then, after a few days, she takes an interest. Eventually we get to talking and she finds out I have depth, and the ability to hold down a job.

This happened twice this year. The first time I was tempted because, frankly, I get lonely, and she was hot.

The second time is ongoing and oh-hell-no I'm not touching that.

Aside from my wish for my marriage to eventually work out, I attract the wrong women. They have clinical emotional problems, criminal histories, drug use, they seek abusive men....I want no part of that.

I PM'd Felicity regarding a specific girl and she rightfully pointed out that as I was still wearing my ring then, this woman knew I was married and didn't care. This meant she obviously didn't value boundaries like marriage and wouldn't think much of cheating. Also, according to the rules I took my vows under, separation and estrangement do not afford me the freedom to date. I am as restricted as ever.

So, I use World of Warcraft as my distraction :2wave:

And yes I've told a couple girls on occasion that I couldn't hang out with them because I was scheduled to raid that night :mrgreen:
 
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Jerry said:
It always the same: some lady meets me and is instantly repulsed by my demeanor and how I come across on the first impression. Then, after a few days, she takes an interest. Eventually we get to talking and she finds out I have depth, and the ability to hold down a job.

This happened twice this year. The first time I was tempted because, frankly, I get lonely, and she was hot.

The second time is ongoing and oh-hell-no I'm not touching that.

Aside from my wish for my marriage to eventually work out, I attract the wrong women. They have clinical emotional problems, criminal histories, drug use, they seek abusive men....I want no part of that.

I PM'd Felicity regarding a specific girl and she rightfully pointed out that as I was still wearing my ring then, this woman knew I was married and didn't care. This meant she obviously didn't value boundaries like marriage and wouldn't think much of cheating. Also, according to the rules I took my vows under, separation and estrangement do not afford me the freedom to date. I am as restricted as ever.

So, I use World of Warcraft as my distraction :2wave:

And yes I've told a couple girls that I couldn't hang out with them because I was scheduled to raid that night :mrgreen:
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The..uh...WoW isn't affecting the marriage is it?
 
EpicDude86 said:
The..uh...WoW isn't affecting the marriage is it?
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Funny thing, actually....RPGs are something she and I have in common. My wife introduced me to WoW, in fact. I began playing as a way for us to connect.

Unfortunately she ran off in-game with the same guy she ran off to in real-life :doh

Having a predisposition to RPGs, I continued on without here, and did just fine without her thank you very much. It just might be a metaphor for my real life.

Today she operates a rather successful uber-leet guild (Blue Flame) in Rangarock.
 
Jerry said:
Funny thing, actually....RPGs are something she and I have in common. My wife introduced me to WoW, in fact. I began playing as a way for us to connect.

Unfortunately she ran off in-game with the same guy she ran off to in real-life :doh

Having a predisposition to RPGs, I continued on without here, and did just fine without her thank you very much. It just might be a metaphor for my real life.

Today she operates a rather successful uber-leet guild (Blue Flame) in Rangarock.
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I don't know whether to weep or rage...

I love and respect you so much more now, Jerry. Mad props, niggs.
 
I've not been been married, but I've been pursued while in serious relationships.

I'd guess about 95% of the time I wasn't tempted in the slightest. That's not to say that I didn't find them sexually appealing. That's not to say that if the situation weren't different that I wouldn't have jumped at the opportunity. What that is saying is that if I'm happy in my relationship, there IS no temptation. I don't WANT to **** anyone else. And if I DO want to **** someone else, I mean REALLY want to **** someone else despite the relationship I'm in, then something is wrong in the relationship I'm in.

Roughly five percent of the times I've been propositioned, I was seriously tempted. To the point that I knew that if we found ourselves alone somewhere and he made advances, I didn't think I'd stop him. Each time that has happened to me, it made me re-evaluate the relationship I was in. Why was I so tempted to risk the relationship for a quick ****? For an orgasm?!? Something must be very wrong if I was actually entertaining the idea of destroying what I had just to get off. And, in all but one of the times I ended up breaking it off with the person I was in a relationship with. Because after thinking about it, I realized exactly why I was willing to hurt them just to get laid. One of the times, however, I decided the relationship was worth trying to fix.

My boyfriend, however, says men are different and they want to **** other women pretty much all the time. /shrug
 
Its funny but when you are looking to hook up its more difficult than when you are in a relationship. I think girls just want to stick it to other girls personally. They want to see if they can take away another girls toy.

Very generally Men=immoral,Women=amoral

We would not have GGW any other way.
 
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aps said:
What a fantastic story. I love your candidness, nifty! :2wave:
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lizzie said:
I am in awe of your candor and your apparent high level of character. It made my day to read your story. Thanks!:)
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Thanks. That happened about 8 years ago. And it felt good to type it, as I realized that I hadn't ever told it to anybody. In addition to all the other things that guys do, we also generally don't talk about this kinda stuff to each other!
 
EnigmaO01 said:
I got hit on a lot by older married women when I was single. Never took them up on it. Not so much now that I'm married, but I am self employed and work by myself so I don't make contact with a lot of women anyway, like I did in a previous job.

I wouldn't cheat on my wife for the world. I've got a good thing going and would be a moron to risk it.
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i guess your nickname isn't tiger, then. ;-)
 
Yes, I had an online friend suggest that we might become something more than friends behind our spouses' backs and I turned it down immediately. Later, she said she was embarrassed that she had ever brought it up and we're still friends many years later. It's not hard to turn down when you're committed to your husband/wife.
 
Cephus said:
Yes, I had an online friend suggest that we might become something more than friends behind our spouses' backs and I turned it down immediately. Later, she said she was embarrassed that she had ever brought it up and we're still friends many years later. It's not hard to turn down when you're committed to your husband/wife.
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I give her credit for being embarrassed because it shows she had some decency. In my case, the married guy who propositioned me was clearly suprised that I said no and was not remotely embarrassed. I feel sorry for his wife.
 
EnigmaO01 said:
Nothing worse than a persistent female stalker Strucky. I had that happen to a friend.
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I can't really blame her though....Look at me,I'm a babe :mrgreen:
 
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