I have been pursued, and while I was tempted, I walked away.
Since being married(or in a long term relationship) I have never been pursued
I haven't been pursued, and if I was, and the person was hot, I'd probably cheat
Originally Posted by johnny_rebson:
These are the same liberals who forgot how Iraq attacked us on 9/11.
Pimpin ain't easy.
I once had this extremely awkward thing happen once. I worked with this woman that I was getting to be pretty good friends with, and she was amazing, in every way: brilliant, tall, gorgeous, athletic, fun, etc. At the time, my wife and I were really unhappy with each other. It was not a good phase at all. And meanwhile, I'm having dreams every night about my work friend, etc. I mean, she was ... uh ... you probably get the picture. Anyway, I felt extremely guilty about it. My work friend situation didn't cause my marital problems, but it almost certainly fueled them a little bit.
So anyhow, one day I get this email that seems kinda spammish, from "crushlink." And it says, "someone has a crush on you, if you have a crush on someone else, enter their email here to see if it is them." ... something to that effect. It was stupid and juvenile...so, of course, I obsessed over it, for about 60 seconds, and typed her email, and it was her! So she almost immediately sends me a response and says "so I guess we have a lot to talk about huh?!"
So I met her for lunch away from work and told her about how I don't want to ever break my vows and I wasn't the kind of guy that would ever divorce, or see other people, etc. And we remained friends after that, which I'm grateful for, but it felt awkward for a while.
I still can't believe that something like that happened to me. I'm not all that particularly good looking, but I guess I'm pretty silly, yet also serious, in a yin/yang kinda way, which some people go for.
Right after that all happened, my marriage got better and we had our son. It's weird how when you're in the midst of turbulence it doesn't feel like things are ever going to get better, but they can if you work on it.
The funny thing was my wife knew all about it and I didn't even have to tell her. She just 'sensed' it. In fact, she senses everything. I married someone even more amazing than the work woman.
I've been hit on a few times since I got married, but it's usually chubby broads.
I have a theory that I smell like a Snickers bar or something and this is what attracts them to me.