View Poll Results: What would you do if pursued while married?

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  • I have been pursued, and while I was tempted, I walked away.

    13 48.15%
  • Since being married(or in a long term relationship) I have never been pursued

    5 18.52%
  • I haven't been pursued, and if I was, and the person was hot, I'd probably cheat

    1 3.70%
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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Quote Originally Posted by aps View Post
    Because it moved when he came onto you?
    of course it moved......it couldn't help itself......;-)

    Originally Posted by johnny_rebson:

    These are the same liberals who forgot how Iraq attacked us on 9/11.


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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    I was pursued more when I was married than I was when I was single--before, or since.
    Quote Originally Posted by Top Cat View Post
    At least Bill saved his transgressions for grown women. Not suggesting what he did was OK. But he didn't chase 14 year olds.

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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Quote Originally Posted by molten_dragon View Post
    Maybe. But then again I can't be the only guy that ever got chatted up by cougar at a pool in Phoenix. It'd be hilarious if it really was you though.
    actually, i was in phoenix a few years ago on business and a young guy asked me to put lotion on his back.....i couldn't believe it. he was maybe, 25.

    Originally Posted by johnny_rebson:

    These are the same liberals who forgot how Iraq attacked us on 9/11.


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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Quote Originally Posted by liblady View Post
    actually, i was in phoenix a few years ago on business and a young guy asked me to put lotion on his back.....i couldn't believe it. he was maybe, 25.
    Soooooooo, did you oblige him?

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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Quote Originally Posted by aps View Post
    Soooooooo, did you oblige him?
    the lotion part, yes. the rest of it? no way, but i was flattered.

    Originally Posted by johnny_rebson:

    These are the same liberals who forgot how Iraq attacked us on 9/11.


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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Quote Originally Posted by aps View Post
    I'm a dudette.

    I think you must be joking. In my personal experience, the men who have bragged about themselves have been the most boring, inadequate men I have met. This includes men who bragged about how great they were sexually. It was always the opposite 100% of the time.
    All I know is that hot women are always hitting on me.

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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Pimpin ain't easy.

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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    I once had this extremely awkward thing happen once. I worked with this woman that I was getting to be pretty good friends with, and she was amazing, in every way: brilliant, tall, gorgeous, athletic, fun, etc. At the time, my wife and I were really unhappy with each other. It was not a good phase at all. And meanwhile, I'm having dreams every night about my work friend, etc. I mean, she was ... uh ... you probably get the picture. Anyway, I felt extremely guilty about it. My work friend situation didn't cause my marital problems, but it almost certainly fueled them a little bit.

    So anyhow, one day I get this email that seems kinda spammish, from "crushlink." And it says, "someone has a crush on you, if you have a crush on someone else, enter their email here to see if it is them." ... something to that effect. It was stupid and juvenile...so, of course, I obsessed over it, for about 60 seconds, and typed her email, and it was her! So she almost immediately sends me a response and says "so I guess we have a lot to talk about huh?!"

    Ugh.

    So I met her for lunch away from work and told her about how I don't want to ever break my vows and I wasn't the kind of guy that would ever divorce, or see other people, etc. And we remained friends after that, which I'm grateful for, but it felt awkward for a while.

    I still can't believe that something like that happened to me. I'm not all that particularly good looking, but I guess I'm pretty silly, yet also serious, in a yin/yang kinda way, which some people go for.

    Right after that all happened, my marriage got better and we had our son. It's weird how when you're in the midst of turbulence it doesn't feel like things are ever going to get better, but they can if you work on it.

    The funny thing was my wife knew all about it and I didn't even have to tell her. She just 'sensed' it. In fact, she senses everything. I married someone even more amazing than the work woman.
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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    I've been hit on a few times since I got married, but it's usually chubby broads.

    I have a theory that I smell like a Snickers bar or something and this is what attracts them to me.

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    Re: Have you ever been pursued while being married?

    Quote Originally Posted by niftydrifty View Post
    I once had this extremely awkward thing happen once. I worked with this woman that I was getting to be pretty good friends with, and she was amazing, in every way: brilliant, tall, gorgeous, athletic, fun, etc. At the time, my wife and I were really unhappy with each other. It was not a good phase at all. And meanwhile, I'm having dreams every night about my work friend, etc. I mean, she was ... uh ... you probably get the picture. Anyway, I felt extremely guilty about it. My work friend situation didn't cause my marital problems, but it almost certainly fueled them a little bit.

    So anyhow, one day I get this email that seems kinda spammish, from "crushlink." And it says, "someone has a crush on you, if you have a crush on someone else, enter their email here to see if it is them." ... something to that effect. It was stupid and juvenile...so, of course, I obsessed over it, for about 60 seconds, and typed her email, and it was her! So she almost immediately sends me a response and says "so I guess we have a lot to talk about huh?!"

    Ugh.

    So I met her for lunch away from work and told her about how I don't want to ever break my vows and I wasn't the kind of guy that would ever divorce, or see other people, etc. And we remained friends after that, which I'm grateful for, but it felt awkward for a while.

    I still can't believe that something like that happened to me. I'm not all that particularly good looking, but I guess I'm pretty silly, yet also serious, in a yin/yang kinda way, which some people go for.

    Right after that all happened, my marriage got better and we had our son. It's weird how when you're in the midst of turbulence it doesn't feel like things are ever going to get better, but they can if you work on it.

    The funny thing was my wife knew all about it and I didn't even have to tell her. She just 'sensed' it. In fact, she senses everything. I married someone even more amazing than the work woman.
    Bravo to you. These are the stories I like to hear, and we don't hear them nearly enough!!

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