See those of you arguing against me here are doing so because of PC "values". Note the quotation marks in the word values there. I personally believe that PC'ness is nothing more than an attempt to cater to everyone by modifying their speech. I believe that it inhibits the truth. I believe that it hurts more than it helps.
This is why you think that I don't "understand" your points of view. I do. I just don't agree with it. I see being blunt as the right thing to do because it lets people know where you stand and doesn't attempt to hide the truth behind thinly vieled politeness.
Remember what Lincoln said? If not look to my signature.