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    Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    The question is: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    For me, it would depend. If I had been rejecting my husband emotionally and/or physically, I could see myself forgiving him. It would also depend on the extent to which he was unfaithful. Did he just kiss this other person? Or did he go all the way without a condom--putting me at risk? If he put me at risk, it wouldn't matter if I had emotionally or physically ignored him. I couldn't forgive his putting me at risk. Although I'm not sure I could forgive him if he had sex or oral sex with another woman. The thought of that repulses me, and I'm not sure I could ever get that image out of my head.

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Hell no.
    I already told him if he dared, i'd rip off his penis and shove it down his throat.

    If he isn't getting enough sex from me, tell me. No need to go get a whore.


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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by aps View Post
    The question is: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    For me, it would depend. If I had been rejecting my husband emotionally and/or physically, I could see myself forgiving him. It would also depend on the extent to which he was unfaithful. Did he just kiss this other person? Or did he go all the way without a condom--putting me at risk? If he put me at risk, it wouldn't matter if I had emotionally or physically ignored him. I couldn't forgive his putting me at risk. Although I'm not sure I could forgive him if he had sex or oral sex with another woman. The thought of that repulses me, and I'm not sure I could ever get that image out of my head.
    I have a strict rule and if that specific barrier is crossed, I will be heading to the court house to file separation papers.

    I will not be made a fool of twice.
    I was discovering that life just simply isn't fair and bask in the unsung glory of knowing that each obstacle overcome along the way only adds to the satisfaction in the end. Nothing great, after all, was ever accomplished by anyone sulking in his or her misery.
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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Laila View Post
    Hell no.
    I already told him if he dared, i'd rip off his penis and shove it down his throat.

    If he isn't getting enough sex from me, tell me. No need to go get a whore.
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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainCourtesy View Post
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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Harry Guerrilla View Post
    I have a strict rule and if that specific barrier is crossed, I will be heading to the court house to file separation papers.

    I will not be made a fool of twice.
    I haven't read about the first time. Have you discussed this on here?

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Laila View Post
    Hell no.
    I already told him if he dared, i'd rip off his penis and shove it down his throat.

    If he isn't getting enough sex from me, tell me. No need to go get a whore.
    I agree. COMMUNICATE.

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    I can forgive damned near anything, given time. I've had more practice in my life than any man should have to.

    But Leslie and I are open. Even if we weren't, this just isn't something I'm deeply concerned with, and it's not something I would find that hurtful in the first place.

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Korimyr the Rat View Post
    I can forgive damned near anything, given time. I've had more practice in my life than any man should have to.

    But Leslie and I are open. Even if we weren't, this just isn't something I'm deeply concerned with, and it's not something I would find that hurtful in the first place.
    What do you mean by "open"? You are communicative or that you are allowed to be with other people?

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by aps View Post
    What do you mean by "open"? You are communicative or that you are allowed to be with other people?
    Depends on what you mean by "be with". We're allowed to have sex with other people, as long as we don't put other people first.

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