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Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 13.3%
  • No

    Votes: 17 37.8%
  • I don't know--it would depend (describe circumstances)

    Votes: 22 48.9%

  • Total voters
    45
Why, what did i say :shock:

If the comment were made during the week I'd probably have a come-back, but since I'll be picking up my kids from my wife's boyfriend's house in a few hours for a visitation weekend, I'm a lil touchy right now.
 
If the comment were made during the week I'd probably have a come-back, but since I'll be picking up my kids from my wife's boyfriend's house in a few hours for a visitation weekend, I'm a lil touchy right now.

Oww didnt know you was divorced.

Bringing up his children like that, given the context of his post, is not kosher.

Wasnt being spiteful dont get your knickers in a twist
 
Hell no, not since they invented fatal STDs.....
 
What?? You honestly dont mind if your boyfriend was having sex with some other guy? How about if you caught him? Dont you at least expect him to be faithful to you, and be yours only? When i love someone, i want them all to myself and expect them to be faithful to me as would i. I know its just sex but it means alot and i would be heartbroken if someone i loved had sex with someone else.

I just don't really care anymore. We did at first but that's because we wanted all of each other's devotion and attention. Now with him bouncing back and forth between LA and New York and me working as much as I do, it just doesn't seem to be this big thing to us. :shrug:

I mean, we've been through probably one of the worst experiences a couple can deal with together with one of us having gotten potentially fatally ill and surviving it and we stuck through that. I don't really think who we happen to screw on the side is really going to break us up or diminish our devotion to one another if something as drastic as cancer didn't. Plus, I'm in my thirties and he's in his 20's. I don't think it right to rob him of all the fun he can have as a young man and my physical interests seem to wax and wane now days while his are in full force.

Basically, it's just sex. I have no interest in what distractions he comes across and he has none in mine. Except when we compare notes over coffee the next morning or we stumble upon each other in some compromising position. Then it's only notable for the laugh we get out of it.
 
And can I just also add that our distractions have amounted to about 1 each over the years. It's not like we go out at night looking to hook up. 29 out of 30 nights of the month we are at home together making dinner, playing with the dogs, watching a movie, and in bed at midnight. The other one day we might be at the neighbors' places.
 
Nope. My wife and I have a very open and communicable relationship; we're very understanding of each other's needs and trusting of each other. However, if she cheated that would be it. Especially since we don't have children yet...it's when you have children that it gets a little more complicated.
 
There's no such thing as "bad sex"...that's like say there's "bad-pizza".

All sex is good sex.

Noo....there is such a thing as bad pizza *shudders* I don't want to talk about it.....

What if you're getting a bl** job, and she bites down? That is bad sex.....not to mention painful :x
 
Noo....there is such a thing as bad pizza *shudders* I don't want to talk about it.....

What if you're getting a bl** job, and she bites down? That is bad sex.....not to mention painful :x

No I've actually.....nm....
 
Or if she had braces, that would hurt

Surprisingly getting a bj from someone with braces isn't bad if they are careful and know what they are doing. Plus, there's added excitement due to the risk factor for all you daredevils out there.
 
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