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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tucker Case View Post
    I'd like to add that I would not get angry over it, regardless of the scenario.

    I do have a very bad temper, but it really doesn't come out when people do things to me such as this. If I were physically hit, my temper would rise, but emotional hits don't get me angry.

    I've got a weird temper though. I've got a long fuse in many ways, and a nearly invisible fuse in others.
    It's called bipolar.

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dr_Patrick View Post
    Just out of curiosity, why the double standard? If she could forgive you why couldn't you forgive her?
    Because I don't trust anyone and for her to have earned my trust then to violate my trust. Would be unforgivable, period.

    That and the fact that I wouldn't violate her trust by cheating on her... because of the way I'd feel about her doing the same thing in reverse.
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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by tlmorg02 View Post
    I was wanting to hit on you until I learned to fear for my life!!!
    I'm flattered but don't let that side of me scare you.
    I'm a lovely person ... deep deep down ...


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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Laila View Post
    I'm flattered but don't let that side of me scare you.
    I'm a lovely person ... deep deep down ...
    Yeah, I have a good side to,....somewhere!

    You are fine Laila, my wife threatens to kill me everyother day, that is why I lock her in the basement. We are so in love, ahhhhh.

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Laila View Post
    Until they find out about my violent tendencies and then run for their lives ;P
    For some, that would be part of the attraction.

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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Redress View Post
    For some, that would be part of the attraction.
    That is very true.
    My partner sees it as one of the qualities that he loves for some reason.


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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    I don't know? If my wife ever balled up her fist and punched me like a man, she better be prepared to be beat down like a man. I mean I don't put my hands on anyone, especially my wife, I demand the same of everyone.


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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by tlmorg02 View Post
    It's called bipolar.
    Good one!


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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by rivrrat View Post
    Yes, depending on the circumstances.

    A heat of passion type of thing I could more easily forgive. Once.

    An ongoing relationship wherein I was lied to constantly, there were feelings involved between them, etc, would be extremely difficult - if not impossible - for me to forgive. Unless I had seriously been neglecting them or something. Even then, it would be difficult.

    So really, for me, it's an emotional thing. I guess it boils down to the fact that I value the emotions, feelings, and actual relationship more than just a physical encounter. If I felt cheated on emotionally, that would be much harder or even impossible to forgive.

    That's pretty much how I feel. Except if the heat of passion involved someone I was close to, I couldn't forgive that.
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    Re: Would you forgive your significant other if he/she cheated on you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dr_Patrick View Post
    For years I struggled with the idea and was unable to separate love and sex.
    I'm capable of it, but it only leaves me feeling sad and empty. We're not built for this, and acclimating yourself to it is a process of self-injury and desensitization.

    Leslie is uncomfortable with my emotional attachments to other women, but she understands and trusts in my sense of loyalty. She knows I'll burn any relationship that threatens my obligations to her.

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