I think people very easily lose sight of what they are asking for or arguing about. This isn't a game. We are in a club unlike all others. "Fairness" is rarely a goal. If it were, then the handicapped, the obese, the weak, and the elderly would all have representation. Either we have the fairest military or we have the strongest military. This is not to suggest that it should be an all male club. On the contrary, there are the few women that could do this. But we are talking about a screening process, not an open door.