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They gave up their right to privacy when they fornicated. Let them get a restraining order if the first meeting doesn't go well.
With the anger you show toward your birth parents, I'm pretty sure that any reconnection would go badly. Why do you resent them so much? Your birth mother gave you up most likely so that you could have a better life than she could provide, or because she was too young to be a responsible parent. You sound as if you hate her, and are just itching for the opportunity to tell her to her face. That's really sad.