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Is it OK to teach your kids to hit back?
Most moms teach their children not to throw punches, even when they are angry. But are there instances in which it’s okay for your child to hit another child — such as when your child is being bullied?
That’s the question Victoria C. is posing on Circle of Moms. Her son was suspended from school for retaliating, with fists, against a classmate who'd been picking on him. “I don’t want my son known for fighting, but I also don’t want him [to be] known as the kid who gets pushed around,” she says, unsure whether she should condone or criticize her son’s behavior.
For most of our members, it goes without saying that children should be taught non-violent dispute resolution techniques. As Jennifer B. asserts, "If your child hits back, they are no better than the person bullying them."
Is it Ever Okay to Teach Your Child to Hit? | POPSUGAR Moms
Most moms teach their children not to throw punches, even when they are angry. But are there instances in which it’s okay for your child to hit another child — such as when your child is being bullied?
That’s the question Victoria C. is posing on Circle of Moms. Her son was suspended from school for retaliating, with fists, against a classmate who'd been picking on him. “I don’t want my son known for fighting, but I also don’t want him [to be] known as the kid who gets pushed around,” she says, unsure whether she should condone or criticize her son’s behavior.
For most of our members, it goes without saying that children should be taught non-violent dispute resolution techniques. As Jennifer B. asserts, "If your child hits back, they are no better than the person bullying them."
Is it Ever Okay to Teach Your Child to Hit? | POPSUGAR Moms