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While I'll agree that it is important to be cognizant of potential racism in ourselves and others, it can also be counter productive to constantly tell people just how racist they are in the absence of any actual evidence. Basically it's like saying, "Ok, you don't and haven't exhibited any actions or speech that would indicate that you're racist but it doesn't matter, you are without realizing it." Seriously, if racism is this huge moral failing, it sure doesn't seem right to label someone racist with nothing to support the judgment. It's like putting the burden of proof on the defendant while at the same time telling the defendant that there's no possible way to plead innocence.
I think that racism is used as too harsh of an accusation.
If you call someone a racist, it is such a strong insult that you give them no choice but to deny the allegation- you breakdown communication and polarize the discussion.
I don't really have a solution there. I've talked about this before but, i think of racism as a large spectrum. I think it's completely unfair to consider unintentional racism anywhere near the same as intentional racism. History reminds us of the horrors of intentional racism, so that's generally what we associate with the term.
I prefer to phrase it to say "that kind of thinking can lend itself to stereotypes that can be destructive," because it avoids the term 'racism' but has a better chance of getting the point across. I don't want to make someone feel bad, but i still want to help people understand how the things they say may be interpreted in the wrong way.