Second, my contention was that millions of children have been raised by same sex parents.
How Many Children Have Gay Parents in the US?
That is just US couples. Doesn't include those raised in other countries either. They aren't a majority by any means, but they do exist in much larger numbers than you seem to be aware of. And there were children being raised by same sex couples, homosexuals when I was a child. (Where the hell do you think the idea for "The Bird Cage" came from?)
'Gayby boom': Children of gay couples speak out - CNN.com
"Levey is part of the "gayby boom" generation. The 29-year-old management consultant is the son of a lesbian couple who chose to have a child through artificial insemination. He's their only child."
The guy above is my age.
"Their numbers are increasing as well, according to COLAGE (Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere). At least 10 million people have one or more lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender parent."
And you try to refute what I am saying by bringing up a child who is involved in a divorce, very little different than if the mother had left her father for another man and a woman who was unhappy with how she was raised, little different than many raised by opposite sex parents.
Maybe you are the one who needs to listen to some children raised by same sex couples. I've never said that all same sex parents are going to be great. There are good and bad parents of any gender combination. You though are trying to contend that only opposite sex parents can raise successful adults. How about you share with us your exact definition of "successful" adult (and it shouldn't have anything to do with their feelings on same sex marriage or gay rights, nor anything about their parents).