Either way, that seems to be your personal bugaboo to battle.
1. Grandpapa's 1990's re-telling to her little girl wide-eyes of his time visiting a Confederate Old Age home in the 1930's and talking to a 100 year old rebel who spent most of his time in a Union prison during the Civil War
2. Neo-confederate garbage from the White Supremacists Kennedy twins not a single legit historian recognizes as factual.
3. Daughters of the Confederacy Lost Cause propaganda.
^ That's it, folks. The sum and full total of her sources.
She still doesn't even accept the word "slavery" or "slaves" is in the Confederate Constitution.
How's that for denial?