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So if you were chosing between two guys, and they were identical, same profession, similar personality, similar income, similar voice, both have the same sense of humor, both are caring and kind, maybe they are even identical twins, except one had a dadbod, and the other looked like a fitness model.
Honestly, which would you chose?
Well you aren't going to believe me anyway, because you think that everybody is shallow and has to have partners that look like body builders to be happy, but I have never in my life been attracted to men with 6 pack abs. As I've mentioned before, they are OK to look at, but they are just not what I am interested in. I don't see why this is so hard for you. Why can't I be attracted to what I want to be attracted to, without you questioning me about it? What if I told you that I didn't believe you when you said you weren't attracted to morbidly obese women? I wouldn't argue with you. What attracts you to certain things are what make you you. There ARE men out there who like big women. There are ALOT of them. Just like there are a lot of women out there who don't like washboard abs. Dadbods are fine, ok? They are fine. I think the husband on the "Jake from State Farm" commercial is just adorable, and I'd much rather go out with him, than somebody built like a body builder. It's what attracts me. I also like Vince Vaughn. He's kind of a "dadbod."
But my all around body type that I am most attracted to? More than anything? Tall, thin guys with dark hair. I don't know why, but I've been attracted to that since I was a little girl.
I would pick THIS:
over THIS:
any day, and twice on Sunday, because what physically attracts me is someone who looks like Adrian Brody. Hell, if I saw Brody in the store, I'd hide behind the clothes racks and watch him walk around. The other guy? I'd pass him on by, because he's not that attractive to me. Is he ugly? No. He just does nothing for me, and that's all that matters.