"A woman is like a teabag, you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Keep your religion out of other people's marriages.
To say women are women because they act or feel a certain way (rather than because of a biological reproductive difference) is saying that women can only be feminine, and this is sexual discrimination. This would be akin to defining race by taste in music rather than ethnic heritage, or defining age by maturity level rather than chronology. Such views are false, prejudiced, outdated, vary by time and local culture, and should not be used to define gender, and definitely shouldn't be used to define laws.
Schadenfreude ist die schönste Freude.