I know it's hard for some to grasp, but it is possible that some people simply disagree with SSM and bigotry has nothing to do with it. Mind blowing, I know.
Personally, I don't give a crap, either way. Make it legal, keep it illegal, whatever, just make a decision so I know what to expect.
What I did find disingenuous, though, was the timing and quickness of Obama's transformation. Not the notion that he changed his mind in and of itself, but the timing and suddenness (during an election campaign). Yeah, that comes off as real sincere. /sarcasm
If, when defending your support for Donald Trump, and your response is,
"But but but... HILLARY!!!", then you lost the argument before you even began.
"A woman is like a teabag, you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water." - Eleanor Roosevelt
Keep your religion out of other people's marriages.
Sometimes I think we're alone. Sometimes I think we're not. In either case, the thought is staggering. ~ R. Buckminster Fuller
The Lovings had gone to D.C. to get married and then returned to live in Virginia as man and wife. They were then convicted under state laws that made what they had done a crime. The Court held Virginia's antimiscegenation laws unconstitutional because it found they were specifically designed to enforce white supremacy--which placed it right in the bulls-eye of the state actions the Fourteenth Amendment was meant to target.
Loving was not a very difficult decision. The Court had recognized in earlier cases that the right of one man and one woman to marry is fundamental, and any law that made that act a crime solely because of the race of the actor was obviously unconstitutional.
The proponents of the homosexual agenda are trying to ride on the coattails of the black civil rights movement, apparently hoping that no one understands the Constitution well enough to see how nonsensical their claims are. The Fourteenth Amendment was no more meant to make homosexuals a specially protected class than it was to do that with seniors, the poor, or the left-handed.