"It was an accident"

"I didn't mean to hit her."

"She injured herself and smashed her head on a cabinet, because she jumped back. But I wasn't going to hit her."

"Look, I have a scratch on my arm from her."

I have seen a lot of abusive men create a victim complex for themselves. You would be surprised the excuses and explanations they come up with, but I have seen it enough to realize that many of them actually think they are victims in some way.

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Which means they can control it. Throws these excuses out the window;

"she made me do it"

"I blacked out and didn't know what I was doing"

"Something just came over me"