Re: her being there for the money... Yes, there are women who do that, but that is actually fairly rare, I believe. It's actually probably more common for women to *stay* there for the money, I think, especially if they come from a poor background. Is it possible she stayed for the money/lifestyle? It's possible, but in this case I'm doubting it. I wouldn't be surprised if, through life experience and observation, she believes that this is just how life is supposed to be.