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Is Homosexuality "Normal" and "Natural"?

Is homosexuality "normak" and "natural"?


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Brother, I do not intend to speak for gays - however, your focus on physical characteristics is wrong. My educated guess is that their attraction to each other is varied and based on no rule that I can identify. The heart wants what the heart wants - and sometimes the little head does the thinking for the big head. There doesn't seem to be a difference between straight or gay in that regard.

It should go without saying that I defer to anyone else with more knowledge in this area than I.


Do the variety of criteria gay men use to select partners significantly differ from the variety of criteria utilized by straight women?

I'd wager that they are less likely to seek out the "stable, boring, and reliable" type, simply because supporting a family isn't something a gay man is liable to have to worry about. However, as far as attraction to key physical features are concerned, is there a major difference?

I was actually under the impression that gay men tended to be more critically selective in this regard on average.
 
If by this you mean if you have sex enough someone is gonna end up pregnant then yeah, probably, but that does not support your assertion that sex for purposes other than procreation is not useful.


You're right it does not exist for that purpose or any other. It just exists.


No it doesn't. That's your belief in god talking not logic, reason or science.

this only makes sense if there is intelligent design. Sex happens to have evolved in a way that feels good and happens to occasionally result in pregnancy neither of those were premeditated or engineered so that a desired outcome would arrive

Look at any species on this planet you wish. You will find plenty of species who have sex only for the purposes of reproduction, with no pleasured involved at all.

You will not find any who do so for pleasure alone, with reproductive function or instincts removed from the equation entirely.

This should give you a pretty significant hint as to the act's purpose in and of itself.

Do you imagine that we eat purely for the taste as well, and nutrition is simply a happy coincidence?

The whole line of reasoning is backwards and absurd.

Our biology is not sentient.

Regardless, it does seem to work towards certain goals.

Genes can be observed to have a vested interest (in de facto function, if not necessarily explicit desire) in perpetuating themselves, and it drives a great deal of our behavior.

-not to me. There is no "should". The most you can say is that in the very specific area of sexual development it does not function or develop the way the majority do

Regardless, it is a sign that the developmental process has gone awry in a fashion contrary to normal function.

The mechanics of it are really no different than any other condition we generally tend to consider as being a "defect." It simply happens to be a defect that you, personally, do not consider to be harmful.

A better question is why would you want to? It's self serving Gath. All it accomplishes is making you more comfortable with the world you are surrounded by. If the person "afflicted" with the "condition" of homosexuality has no discomfort with it and it does not inhibit their ability to fully evolve and enjoy a productive life it is very likely they would not choose to change it. Even the suggestion of the necessity to do so implies that there is something inadequate about that person living the version of themselves they were born as. How cruel of anyone to impose that on someone who's life.

It would arguably "streamline" the human experience considerably by removing our need to adapt to what is essentially useless behavior in the first place. It would also increase the efficiency with which human beings accomplish certain biological tasks.

At the end of the day, the simple fact of the matter is that homosexuality (note that I did not say homosexual persons) is more or less worthless. It is an anomaly at best, and a distraction at worst.

There is no reason why it should have to exist.

Just because I defend it doesn't mean I practice it

I'll take your word on that.

No, there is no reason it should be. Things really don't need a reason to exist. They just do.

Then they should be given a reason. ;)

My assumption is that you are referring to things like vaccinations?? Apples and oranges dude.

So how about braces then?

The rather troublesome issues raised by abortion remain conspicuously absent from your reasoning here as well.

Not one for subtleties are you Gath? I never suggested any such thing

I'm just about positive that you did.

You repeatedly suggested that death was preferable to a bad upbringing or disadvantaged life circumstances in at least one abortion thread we were both involved in.
 
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Did this about normal a few years ago, and decided it was time to try again. Was a fun and interesting thread at the time, so hopefully this will be as well. Two simple questions. Is Homosexuality "normal", and is homosexuality "natural"? If you would, please include your reasoning.

Poll will allow multiple choices, pick a choice for the "normal" question and for the "natural" question. Poll will be up in a couple minutes.

The tendency to be sexually attracted to another sex is both normal and natural. Just as you don't "choose" to be straight, you don't "choose" to be gay. Homosexuality has even been observed in nature indicating that it's not "just some weird human trend."
 
What would be the harm in correcting or preventing such a thing, if we had the power to do so?

I suppose you want a world where everyone is the same, preferably just like you. I happen to value diversity cause it makes life more interesting. You on the other hand look at some costumes at a pride parade and act like you're throwing up and it's time to eliminate homosexuality. We're overpopulated if anything, gays can reproduce and plenty of heteros do not, and we have the technology to reproduce without sex, but you keep going on about biological imperative.
 
Your source does not confirm your claim, you neglected the last line.
"This, of course, would not indicate that androphilic males have a greater propensity to offend against children."

It seems your source contradicts you. The following source contradicts you.Facts About Homosexuality and Child Molestation
The empirical research does not show that gay or bisexual men are any more likely than heterosexual men to molest children. This is not to argue that homosexual and bisexual men never molest children. But there is no scientific basis for asserting that they are more likely than heterosexual men to do so. And, as explained above, many child molesters cannot be characterized as having an adult sexual orientation at all; they are fixated on children.

So your link to pedophilia is completely your brain child.



Spreading a disease that is incurable is immoral. Yes, anyone who engages in sexual activities knowing they have an incurable disease is damn immoral in my opinion. Of course maybe widespread disease doesn't concern you, I don't know.
I agree completely, this doesn't really have any bearing on homosexuality. The link you are making isn't there.

"In a major Canadian centre, life expectancy at age 20 years for gay and bisexual men is 8 to 20 years less than for all men. If the same pattern of mortality were to continue, we estimate that nearly half of gay and bisexual men currently aged 20 years will not reach their 65th birthday."
Nothing to do with morality.


Early Onset and Deviant Sexuality in Child Molesters

"Of our total sample, 29% reported having deviant fantasies prior to age 20, and this was most pronounced (41.1%) among those who molested the sons of other people". I advise you to read the whole thing, though.
Nothing to do with homosexuality.



I've posted the sources. Did you think I'd make claims without sources ?
Your sources don't back up your claims.

You're an apologist for sexual deviancy with enormous costs on society, both on the taxpayer, ethical conscious and moral fabric.
What you find deviant is irrelevant. And the connections you made are shaky at best. One could use the same shaky connection to make a far better case of why heterosexuality is immoral. Allow me too demonstrate:

All pregnancies are caused by heterosexual behavior, thus all abortions are caused by heterosexual behavior. All homeless children are caused by heterosexual behavior. This places much much heavier burdens on the fabric of our social and moral structure. Thus using your logic heterosexuality is far more immoral than homosexuality.

We would say in France Il ne faut pas se fier aux apparences. I'm not sure of your intentions, but to place a niche of individual interests above the common good is treason.
So why would you do such a thing?

Placing your morality over the common good seems to be extremely selfish.
 
There is no reason to suggest that is not normal or natural, but even if homosexuality was "unnatural," in that it was some trend that people fully chose to do and nothing to do with biological and environmental factors that influence the individual and determine sexuality, I don't see a logical reason to discriminate based on sexuality.
 
Do the variety of criteria gay men use to select partners significantly differ from the variety of criteria utilized by straight women?

I'd wager that they are less likely to seek out the "stable, boring, and reliable" type, simply because supporting a family isn't something a gay man is liable to have to worry about. However, as far as attraction to key physical features are concerned, is there a major difference?

I was actually under the impression that gay men tended to be more critically selective in this regard on average.

There's great variety of physical attraction ("bear, twink" etc) and emotional attraction too. We are males (not straight women), which often means being rather horny for just about anything. Everyone has different preferences tho. Choosing a partner just depends. At college age, so many don't even think about long term, just who they're in love with at the time. I'm sure it will disgust you, but one major diff is two 'bottoms' don't go together. Another is that gay men are more likely to be in mixed race relationship, likely due to at some time living outside the social norm already.
 
Defects cause some form of harm, or simple abnormality which is non-advantageous. Think of things like Autism, Down Syndrome, Bi-Polar Disorder, or Dwarfism, for instance.

If such conditions could be "cured" in some sense, or prevented from occurring outright, most people would support doing so.

Then homosexuality is not a defect under your 1st criteria (which is the reason for seeking a cure for defects) and the 2nd, that is debatable but using "abnormal but non-advantageous", we'd have to expand the list of 'defects' considerably. Left-handed, non brown eyes, racial minority...i think you get the idea. Do you support "curing" blue eyes using the same criteria?
 
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Homosexuality and the Unnaturalness Argument - pdf

Homosexuality and the "Unnaturalness Argument" - web

From a legal and philosophical perspective, the unnatural and not-normal arguments concerning homosexuality are no no longer used as they were shot down down decisively in 2005. The dissertation is long. However, I can say this:
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Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester and birth control are not natural.

Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people cannot get legally married because the world needs more children.

Obviously, gay parents will raise gay children because straight parents only raise straight children.

Straight marriage will become less meaningful, since Britney Spears’ 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.

Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time and it hasn’t changed at all: women are property, Blacks can’t marry Whites, and divorce is illegal.

Gay marriage should be decided by the people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of minorities.

Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of the official state religion are always imposed on the entire country.

Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall.

Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage license.

Children can never succeed without both male and female role models at home. That’s why single parents are forbidden to raise children.

Gay marriage will change the foundation of society. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven’t adapted to cars, TVs or longer life spans.

Civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a “separate but equal” institution is always Constitutional. Separate schools for African Americans worked just as well as separate marriages will or gays and lesbians.​
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Is it normal? I guess that would depend on who. You asked. It's normal to me. :shrug: Normal in what sense?

Is it natural? Again I think that would depend on who you ask, it's natural to me.
 
Do the variety of criteria gay men use to select partners significantly differ from the variety of criteria utilized by straight women?
Straight women don't have a standardized criteria. They differ vastly from one woman to the next, and gay men are the same way

I'd wager that they are less likely to seek out the "stable, boring, and reliable" type, simply because supporting a family isn't something a gay man is liable to have to worry about.
You need to learn not to make such bold assumptions. They are the point at which every argument you make fails.


However, as far as attraction to key physical features are concerned, is there a major difference?
I suppose you know this from back when you were gay.

I was actually under the impression that gay men tended to be more critically selective in this regard on average.
Key point of advice, don't make assumptions.
 


Look at any species on this planet you wish. You will find plenty of species who have sex only for the purposes of reproduction, with no pleasured involved at all. You will not find any who do so for pleasure alone, with reproductive function or instincts removed from the equation entirely.
It seems inconsistent to me that you elevate us as a species when it suits you then imply that we are just like other species when it suits you. Did your god create us or not? If so, stop comparing us to apes ( or whatever lower life form you would like plug in here)
I don't think comparison of human sexuality to those of other species really makes a lot of sense.

You will not find any who do so for pleasure alone, with reproductive function or instincts removed from the equation entirely.
Sometimes, yes

Regardless, it does seem to work towards certain goals.
Genes can be observed to have a vested interest (in de facto function, if not necessarily explicit desire) in perpetuating themselves, and it drives a great deal of our behavior.
If you can do this please take a step back for minute and look at this more objectively. So much of what you see as a "logical" or obvious conclusion is based on the first fundamental belief you've formed about the existence of a creator. Everything you say here only makes sense if there some an intelligent guiding force behind it. Without that it falls apart.

Regardless, it is a sign that the developmental process has gone awry in a fashion contrary to normal function.
The regardless part of your response makes me think you have dismissed my point. It's not a sign to anyone other than the person looking for the evidence to support what it is that they want to believe in

The mechanics of it are really no different than any other condition we generally tend to consider as being a "defect." It simply happens to be a defect that you, personally, do not consider to be harmful.
If they don't consider it "harmful" why do we need to cure them? Because YOU think it's harmful? That sounds like a pretty dangerous precedent. BTW, I consider your faith a lot more dangerous, should we seek to cure you of it? Of whatever part of you draws you to it?

It would arguably "streamline" the human experience considerably by removing our need to adapt to what is essentially useless behavior in the first place. It would also increase the efficiency with which human beings accomplish certain biological tasks.
At the end of the day, the simple fact of the matter is that homosexuality (note that I did not say homosexual persons) is more or less worthless. It is an anomaly at best, and a distraction at worst.
There is no reason why it should have to exist.
Wow, now you're just scaring me.

I'm just about positive that you did.
You repeatedly suggested that death was preferable to a bad upbringing or disadvantaged life circumstances in at least one abortion thread we were both involved in
Like most people you're most likely remember your interpretation of what I said. As I recall, my point was that I could understand why a person of sane mind would feel like taking their life was the best course of action for them and that I could understand also how some who've led a painful life that has left them utterly depleted and damaged may feel like the pain they've endured and see themselves being forced to continue to endure may now be a life they wish to have lived had they a choice.
 
There's great variety of physical attraction ("bear, twink" etc) and emotional attraction too. We are males (not straight women), which often means being rather horny for just about anything. Everyone has different preferences tho. Choosing a partner just depends. At college age, so many don't even think about long term, just who they're in love with at the time. I'm sure it will disgust you, but one major diff is two 'bottoms' don't go together. Another is that gay men are more likely to be in mixed race relationship, likely due to at some time living outside the social norm already.

Straight women don't have a standardized criteria. They differ vastly from one woman to the next, and gay men are the same way

You need to learn not to make such bold assumptions. They are the point at which every argument you make fails.

I suppose you know this from back when you were gay.

Key point of advice, don't make assumptions.

Generally speaking, heterosexual women, while displaying a subtle range of variation in desired criteria, do tend to overwhelmingly go after a few definite traits when selecting male partners. All of those traits can be shown to be either consciously or subconsciously tied to reproduction and reproductive instinct.

They either go after dominant men who show signs of having very high levels of testosterone, which is generally an indicator of virility and better genetics, more subdued men who show signs of social and functional competence which would indicate that they might be able to more effectively provide for any potential offspring which might result from a mating, or some combination of the two.

All I was saying here is that this doesn't appear to be appreciably different among gay men. While the expression of these instincts might be a bit more confused (as I noted before, probably owning to the fact that the prospect of family and reproduction is basically a non-issue for homosexuals under most circumstances), more or less the same subconscious principles seem to apply.

With the exception of the "twink" phenomena (which could be passed off as more masculine gay men looking for something as close as possible to a woman without having to actually find one), gay men do tend to go after classic signs of reproductive "virility" just as straight women are wont do, under most circumstances. This would seem to imply that reproductive instincts, if not necessarily function are still at play. They have simply been misdirected.

Then homosexuality is not a defect under your 1st criteria (which is the reason for seeking a cure for defects) and the 2nd, that is debatable but using "abnormal but non-advantageous", we'd have to expand the list of 'defects' considerably. Left-handed, non brown eyes, racial minority...i think you get the idea. Do you support "curing" blue eyes using the same criteria?

Again, that depends on how one defines "harm" in the first place. Being different for no reason and having to go out of one's way to adapt can be viewed as being "harmful" in a fashion, though not everyone is inclined to accept that argument.

Homosexuality is also a biological and statistical anomaly with no immediately useful function, where the other attributes you listed are not.

I suppose you want a world where everyone is the same, preferably just like you. I happen to value diversity cause it makes life more interesting. You on the other hand look at some costumes at a pride parade and act like you're throwing up and it's time to eliminate homosexuality. We're overpopulated if anything, gays can reproduce and plenty of heteros do not, and we have the technology to reproduce without sex, but you keep going on about biological imperative.

Which is again, simply making things more complicated than they really have to be.

Sorry, but I really don't see any objective value in such a state of affairs. :shrug:
 
It seems inconsistent to me that you elevate us as a species when it suits you then imply that we are just like other species when it suits you. Did your god create us or not? If so, stop comparing us to apes ( or whatever lower life form you would like plug in here)
I don't think comparison of human sexuality to those of other species really makes a lot of sense.

The body, and even the mind, to a certain extent, are biological machines. They are ultimately nothing more, and nothing less. They work according to their function and towards their purpose, as any other machine does.

In this regard, we are no different than any other organism on this planet. We live, reproduce, die, and the cycle repeats itself again with our offspring ad infinitum.

If we are "special" at all, it would be with regard to the soul, which is a factor difficult to quantify in the first place.

Sometimes, yes

Not in the least. The penis (unless the man in question has some medical condition) always shoots fluid chock full of reproductive cells at climax regardless of the context in which sex takes place. Likewise, women are pretty much always more likely to seek out sexual activity at the times of their menstrual cycle when they are most likely to conceive, and the vagina is also lubricated with fluids specifically adapted to facilitate the passage of male reproductive cells regardless of a woman's time of the month.

As I already pointed out, the instinctual side of physical attraction tends to be rather heavily skewed towards reproductive ends as well.

The reproductive element of human sexuality is basically omnipresent. This is true regardless of whether we choose to actively acknowledge it or not.

If you can do this please take a step back for minute and look at this more objectively. So much of what you see as a "logical" or obvious conclusion is based on the first fundamental belief you've formed about the existence of a creator. Everything you say here only makes sense if there some an intelligent guiding force behind it. Without that it falls apart.

The fact of the matter is that our species - and life in general, for that matter - only exists at all because of the principles I have set forward. Just because people want to pretend like they don't exist all of the sudden doesn't make this reality any less valid.

You can attribute that to "God" or you can attribute it to simple chance, but the fact that nature does seem to be naturally inclined to drive towards certain ends is basically undeniable.

Every organism on this planet seeks both its own survival, and (on a subconscious level) the survival of its lineage.

The regardless part of your response makes me think you have dismissed my point. It's not a sign to anyone other than the person looking for the evidence to support what it is that they want to believe in

Would you argue that color blindness or dwarfism were not signs of something going "awry" on either a genetic or developmental level?

Biology is a messy and imperfect medium. It is far from "foolproof." For that exact reason, it sometimes screws up.

I really don't see how anyone could try to deny that. :shrug:

If they don't consider it "harmful" why do we need to cure them? Because YOU think it's harmful? That sounds like a pretty dangerous precedent. BTW, I consider your faith a lot more dangerous, should we seek to cure you of it? Of whatever part of you draws you to it?

You could certainly make the attempt, I suppose, and I wouldn't be surprised at all if someone actually tried it at some point in the future.

We are off the chart now, I'm afraid. "There be monsters" here.

However, even if you were to attempt such a thing, it wouldn't necessarily be the same as what I have suggested. Unlike homosexuality, religious devotion (or at least inclination) is the norm, not the exception.

You would be altering the fundamental nature of humanity, not bringing certain off-shoots and anomalies back in line with the rest of the group.

Wow, now you're just scaring me.

:shrug: It's true.

Societies with a greater degree of homogeneity tend to function more efficiently than societies with a large degree of "diversity." Homosexuals also routinely fail to accomplish certain human biological imperatives.

Homosexuality, as a personal trait, really does not serve any useful purpose.

Like most people you're most likely remember your interpretation of what I said. As I recall, my point was that I could understand why a person of sane mind would feel like taking their life was the best course of action for them and that I could understand also how some who've led a painful life that has left them utterly depleted and damaged may feel like the pain they've endured and see themselves being forced to continue to endure may now be a life they wish to have lived had they a choice.

As I recall, it was a point you raised within the context of abortion, and why a woman might feel it is better to abort her unborn child rather than give it up for adoption or some other, similar, non-lethal alternative.

Again, within that context, I really don't see how choosing to simply alter a child's character for the "greater good" is any less acceptable than denying them a chance at life outright for the same reason.
 
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Did this about normal a few years ago, and decided it was time to try again. Was a fun and interesting thread at the time, so hopefully this will be as well. Two simple questions. Is Homosexuality "normal", and is homosexuality "natural"? If you would, please include your reasoning.

Poll will allow multiple choices, pick a choice for the "normal" question and for the "natural" question. Poll will be up in a couple minutes.

I believe homosexuality is natural, but not normal.
 
I smell a poll designed to deliberately incite negative comments about homosexuality.
 
Generally speaking, heterosexual women, while displaying a subtle range of variation in desired criteria, do tend to overwhelmingly go after a few definite traits when selecting male partners. All of those traits can be shown to be either consciously or subconsciously tied to reproduction and reproductive instinct.

They either go after dominant men who show signs of having very high levels of testosterone, which is generally an indicator of virility and better genetics, more subdued men who show signs of social and functional competence which would indicate that they might be able to more effectively provide for any potential offspring which might result from a mating, or some combination of the two.

All I was saying here is that this doesn't appear to be appreciably different among gay men. While the expression of these instincts might be a bit more confused (as I noted before, probably owning to the fact that the prospect of family and reproduction is basically a non-issue for homosexuals under most circumstances), more or less the same subconscious principles seem to apply.

With the exception of the "twink" phenomena (which could be passed off as more masculine gay men looking for something as close as possible to a woman without having to actually find one), gay men do tend to go after classic signs of reproductive "virility" just as straight women are wont do, under most circumstances. This would seem to imply that reproductive instincts, if not necessarily function are still at play. They have simply been misdirected.



Again, that depends on how one defines "harm" in the first place. Being different for no reason and having to go out of one's way to adapt can be viewed as being "harmful" in a fashion, though not everyone is inclined to accept that argument.

Homosexuality is also a biological and statistical anomaly with no immediately useful function, where the other attributes you listed are not.



Which is again, simply making things more complicated than they really have to be.

Sorry, but I really don't see any objective value in such a state of affairs. :shrug:
I call bull****.
 
I meant to hit natural and not natural as there are those that are naturally gay and those that are gay for psychological reasons... those these are less in numbers.

I really wanted an option that said, "Who cares, as long as they are nice and caring people that benefit society?"
 
The tendency to be sexually attracted to another sex is both normal and natural. Just as you don't "choose" to be straight, you don't "choose" to be gay. Homosexuality has even been observed in nature indicating that it's not "just some weird human trend."

But the animals that practice it observed it and learned it from humans, making it not natural nor normal.
 
But you are still full of ****.

I actually don't know why anybody would even care enough to debate it, much less be against it.
 
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