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If you listen to a few (admittedly loud) voices of fear and paranoia I suppose it might seem that way.
This "FEAR!!!1!" meme just alternately baffles or amuses me though. As I've said, I live in a shooting and hunting culture; I teach defensive shooting skills; and a LOT of the people I hang out with are CCWers, ex-cops, former military, etc.
And I just don't see this "FEAR!!!1!" meme playing out in real life among most gun owners or even gun carriers.
We get up and go to work like everyone else. Some of us get to carry while on the job; some can't due to company rules or etc. We may grumble about it but we go to work anyway and we don't spend the day quivering in fear and feeling inadequate because we're not properly armed.
We're AWARE that anything can happen at any time, and we're ALERT, but we don't go around jumping at shadows every five seconds or attaching a lot of emotional content to our alertness. We don't feel fear every time some stranger approaches. We just live life and have that awareness running in the back of our minds, like a computer running an application in the background rather than on-screen.
We go to each other's houses and barbecue and sit around on the back porch talking like normal people, and we don't jump up and go Rambo every time a squirrel farts in the next tree. :mrgreen:
Sometimes I feel like some of you view us as some sort of alien species or foreign invader and assign us sinister motives, or project your own fears onto us, or something of the sort. We're not; we're mostly just ordinary folks, and if you lived next door you might know us for years without ever knowing we carry, or ever suspecting we were one of the Sinister Gun People. (gasp!)
Yes, we are jealously protective of our rights. We've seen how one incremental step leads to the next, so we're tired of compromising when all that gets us is another step towards laws that may make it harder for us to protect our families IF we need to.
Yes, we're a little different in some ways. But most of the time, you could live next door to one of us (and probably do) and never know it or never think of us as some "weirdo nut"... unless we choose to talk about guns with you at some point.
We're just people like any other people, mostly. We just have a different perspective on certain things. And believe it or not, most of us do NOT have lives that actually revolve around guns... the guns are just THERE, and to us as natural a part of life as a car or a cell phone.
I congratulate you on doing a very good job at describing the vast majority of gun owners. I agree with it.
Having said that, it is still true that the gun industry survives appealing to a fear of crime. Fear is part and parcel of the entire gun culture and is the reason for many purchases. It also seems to be the motivation behind many on the far right who have a severe fear and paranoia about government.