Well, crap. I ticked the wrong boxes. I'm obviously not a man.
I'm divorced now, but when I was married I was the one who cooked and did all the housework, especially during the years I chose to stay at home with my daughter. Before she was born, when I worked full time, I still cooked, because my ex sucks at it, but we shared all the housework equally. As for parenting, it was pretty equal, although I was the one more in charge of discipline since my daughter had her father pretty much wrapped around her little finger. Good thing she was a good kid and gave us very little trouble, because being the bad guy all the time is not fun. I really wish that he had taken a more active role in the discipline department. Our relationship was pretty equal, all decisions were discussed and mutually agreed upon.