Since the basic subject here is how we raise our daughters, I'll get back to that. As far as I'M concerned, the best way to raise daughters is the same way parents raise their sons. Parents need to educate their daughters to be strong, independent individuals, capable of succeeding in any job/career they set their minds to, and let go of archaic -- and oppressive -- gender restrictions. That's how MY parents raised me, and I am very glad they did.
Girls and women greatly benefit from graduating high school, then moving on to either college or trade schools and successfully completing those programs, and after that, obtaining their first good jobs and moving up from there. Women have the same right to be doctors, lawyers, scientists, technicians, engineers, mathematicians, law enforcement officers at state and federal levels, and military officers as men have. Obviously YOU believe those are the "wrong" choices for women. So what. As I said before, it isn't for YOU to decide for anyone but yourself, and that is something ALL women can be very happy about.
As for making sacrifices - that's your choice and you get to live with the reprecussions of it, both positive and negative. At least I assume you find positives with it.