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Re: Men: Would You Marry an American Woman?
Again, pay attention and focus!
You claimed that modern societies are failing in the same way as Japan is.
Japan has a lot of young adults who despise sex. Please name the modern societies where the young adults despise sex.
Japan has a lot of young adults who are sexually inactive. Please name the modern societies where the young adults are sexually inactive.
So you're poor?
Someone once told me that poor people have been marrying other poor people for ages. You are obviously not adhering to that tradition.
Actually, as the article I linked to shows, most Japanese men are in a situation similar to yours - they do not make enough to support a family.
And you are refusing to enter into a marital relationship with women, preferring to remain single to having to deal with the "hassle" of a woman unless she meets some unspoken qualifications which are obviously unrealistic given your situation.
But it's OK when you do it.
Unfruitful sexual activity is no different than not having sex at all. Your argument fails.
The simple fact of the matter is that virtually all "modern" industrialized nations are having problems relating to low birth rates, low marriage rates, and crumbling gender relations. That is the "failure" to which I alluded, not anything specifically having to do with sex.
Japan simply happens to be the most extreme case. It is not, however; necessarily inconceivable that the same could happen here.
Again, pay attention and focus!
You claimed that modern societies are failing in the same way as Japan is.
Most "modern" societies are failing in the same way Japan is.
Japan has a lot of young adults who despise sex. Please name the modern societies where the young adults despise sex.
Japan has a lot of young adults who are sexually inactive. Please name the modern societies where the young adults are sexually inactive.
Who says I'm not adhering to them? The simple fact of the matter is that I'm broke and have nothing to offer at the time being. Women would be wise to avoid me, and I them until my circumstances improve.
So you're poor?
Someone once told me that poor people have been marrying other poor people for ages. You are obviously not adhering to that tradition.
Most Japanese men are not in my situation, but women are refusing to enter into relationships with them anyway; preferring to remain single to having to deal with the "hassle" of a man unless he happens to be wealthy in a manner which greatly exceeds the national average.
Actually, as the article I linked to shows, most Japanese men are in a situation similar to yours - they do not make enough to support a family.
And you are refusing to enter into a marital relationship with women, preferring to remain single to having to deal with the "hassle" of a woman unless she meets some unspoken qualifications which are obviously unrealistic given your situation.
But it's OK when you do it.