I was simply saying that it's not particularly hard to visualize how these kinds of crimes wind up going down sometimes.
Misunderstandings arise on the bar and club scene all the time. Where most men (myself included, as should go without saying) aren't terrible human beings and will simply take "no" for an answer and move on, under just the wrong circumstances (the wrong guy with the wrong personality, the wrong environment, the wrong level of intoxication, the wrong level of flirtation before hand, etca), it is possible for such misunderstandings to escalate into something far worse.
That doesn't make it any less wrong. The man in question is still rapist scum.
I'm simply acknowledging that this is a risk women face, and saying that they should plan around it.
When "ignoring" a person, it is customary to actually, you know... ignore them.