Again, this whole way of thinking simply strikes me as being problematic. It sends mixed messages.
It basically reads like "I don't have to behave responsibly, because men should behave themselves."
Well... I'm sorry, but that's simply not going to happen. Right or wrong, it's simply not.
As such, repeating this kind of "wishful thinking" is effectively worthless.
Teach prevention and responsibility and leave things at that. No rapist is getting off on the "she was asking for it" defense these days anyway.