View Poll Results: As a young man (early 20s) would you date a 15 or 16 year old?

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    I don't think it is just a question of attraction. I think it is a question of what is right. The transition between being in high school and living at home - and living as an adult and away from home - I would think is enormous. To plunk someone - male or female - out of that and bring them forward past half a decade - in my opinion is wrong. Its not that the 15 or 16 year old won't enjoy being "an adult," but that person could never recapture what they lost.

    Although it never applied to me, I would think that the ages between 15 and 19 would incredibly unique and formative years that could never be returned to if bypassed. There is no way to know what that person would have become or what doors would have opened or insights learned. Seducing high school kids with adult ways is wrong in my opinion. Leave the teenagers alone to be teenagers.

    I had very little ethics or values in romance. No woman nor anyone else every would say I as a nice guy. It wasn't about niceness to me. Certainly no interest in relationship and whatever I got into with a woman I was singularly in it for me. Whether she enjoyed it or not was her thing, not my concern. My only concerns were was I interested and if so did she consent. It began and ended there. But I'd never touch a teenager. There was too much potential damage to be done in my view of it, nor did I want children anyway, which is how I saw them. They may be experienced and so-called street wise, but didn't have a clue really what it meant to come into my world and ways.

    What's so hard with the concept of adults should leave the kids alone? 1 year, 2 year difference? OK. Otherwise no. I'm certain other people's wives/husbands can be highly attractive and may even make herself available. Leave them alone too. In my not-humble opinion, adults shouldn't **** kids and other people's spouses. If you can't find someone else among the BILLIONS on this planet I think you got a real problem.

    The ONLY exception I MIGHT see is if the goal is marriage, not sex. Sex is cheap, easy, trivial if just for sex. Seeking a spouse? That's real. I could see a 20 something not passing up someone he/she sees as "THE ONE."

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Quote Originally Posted by Chocolate View Post
    It's really hard to say... I don't really find dating a 16 year old disgusting or wrong... but I don't think you should be sleeping with her, untill she is a little older..... hard to say I voted no because well I think there is a very thin line of social acceptance with that sort of thing, plus I would assume there would be a maturity problem, as well as lack of income, and responsablity from the young one
    I think by dating he actually meant sex.

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Quote Originally Posted by Superfly View Post
    OK I am going to post a poll for the Men here, based on the yoga pants thread.

    Going into this, being completely understanding of the fact that levels of maturity change greatly within a matter of only a few years, I'd like to ask this.

    If a girl is 15 or 16 years old, would you be OK with dating her, knowing she was only 15 or 16, if you were in your early 20s?

    Would that be OK with you?
    I thought that most men would not be interested, remembering the old "15 will get you 20" saying.


    But apparently I am wrong, according to one poster here, and most young men would be OK dating a 16 year old.



    It's not a good idea.

    Could get you in a lot of trouble.

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    That wasn't even what people were arguing in that thread.

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    bah, not an open poll? well, i guess if you want honesty....

    There is a sharp distinction between a 20 year old dating a 16 year old, and a 25 year old dating a 15 year old. So there is room within the poll for differences in response. Both I would argue are problematic in the sense that A) as far as some contact goes, it is illegal and B) men are usually the sexually assertive ones - that much of a power differential is bad ju-ju. However, I would say that the latter is more egregiously wrong of a type.

    I started dating my wife when she was 19 and I was 23 (she didn't tell me this at the time - since she was hanging out with my age peers I assumed she was one of them; we'd been dating for several months before I found out). That's a 4 year difference, and pretty close to the ages that we are discussing. When I was 19 I would have looked askance at any 23 year old dating one of my classmates, though partly agreeably out of a natural competitive spirit. When friends of mine leave the military at age 22 and go to college, I don't expect or demand them to limit their freshman dating experiences to seniors and juniors, despite the fact that they are coming in with a wealth of experiences and growing up that even their age-cohort-fellows will not share.


    There is a reason that older-guy-younger-gal couples are more common than their inverse; women are attracted to achievement, success, etc; while men are attracted to youth, beauty, etc. pointing that out is not the same as excusing relationships between 15 year old girls and 25 year old men.

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Even aside from the fact that, in my country, boning a 15 year would make me a paedophile, what's the attraction of bedding schoolgirls? How sad can you get? I wouldn't very likely hit on someone who wasn't at least in their mid-twenties, and probably not even then. We have nothing in common. As far as it being purely physical, they're not offering anything that any woman on earth can't offer, and probably with a lot more upstairs.

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Quote Originally Posted by herenow1 View Post
    Good suggestion. I think I will start one.
    Cool. But the thread that you started is not at all what I had in mind.

    See, my theory is that if we were to ask women if we ever dated older guys in our teen years, most of us would probably say yes. I know that me, my sister and most of our friends all dated at least one guy in his early 20s when we were 15-17.
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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Quote Originally Posted by Superfly View Post
    OK I am going to post a poll for the Men here, based on the yoga pants thread.

    Going into this, being completely understanding of the fact that levels of maturity change greatly within a matter of only a few years, I'd like to ask this.

    If a girl is 15 or 16 years old, would you be OK with dating her, knowing she was only 15 or 16, if you were in your early 20s?

    Would that be OK with you?

    I thought that most men would not be interested, remembering the old "15 will get you 20" saying.

    But apparently I am wrong, according to one poster here, and most young men would be OK dating a 16 year old.
    I wouldn't be okay with dating one. The lack of maturity would get on my nerves pretty fast.

    I find myself sexually attracted to many young women that age (essentially age doesn't really matter once they've finished puberty), and I wouldn't have a problem sleeping with them if society deemed it acceptable.
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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Hell, the best part of turning 21 is all the blowjobs you can get from high school girls who can't buy beer yet.

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    Re: Poll for men only please, regarding sex with younger women

    Quote Originally Posted by Gipper View Post
    Hell, the best part of turning 21 is all the blowjobs you can get from high school girls who can't buy beer yet.
    That they need beer goggles on to even look at you should tell you something.
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