It's probably an act. It's awfully funny that he supposed "ignored" her, and then .. . well you know the story. With his actions, I certainly don't put him above being a child molester. I believe Dylan.
There's not "supposed" about it. Mia herself stated that before she turned out 18, Woody barely spoke to Soon-Yi and then, only because Mia insisted that he spend more time with her.
Not enough evidence does not equal innocence. It only means there isn't enough evidence to bring something to trial. I don't know why you doubt what his own daughter and son say about him. Why would they say such things about their own father? They have nothing to gain, and Dylan has everything to lose by coming out with this. She is an adult now. I believe she is cognitively capable of being able to separate events that occurred in her life.
I think you're wearing blinders and refusing to accept the flip side evidence that questions what you want to believe.
If, when defending your support for Donald Trump, and your response is,
"But but but... HILLARY!!!", then you lost the argument before you even began.