First of all, I have no problem with alcohol. Why you would insinuate such a thing I don't know. Again, the thread is NOT about me. Please try to control yourself and NOT make it personal.
Secondly, YOU are fooling yourself if you think you can have any control over an addictive substance once you've introduced it into your child's life and system. Even doctors cannot control their patients many times with carefully prescribed dosages of addictive substances. You are just playing with fire.
That's all I have to say on the matter. I've stated my opinions. I've backed them with very good links to some very good data, and anything else from here on out is just tit-for-tat and doesn't mean anything, so we can just agree to disagree.