1.) i dont understand at all? theres no bending of the rules
2.) yes the same as straights if they, the couples have laws they cant cross and the on lookers have laws they can cross.
in most cases it would be obscenity laws for the couple and harassment/assult for the on lookers
3.) society is educating itself and standing up against bigots and or people in favor of denying rights
4.) interesting
5.) no if it breaks the law, its really that simply and soon these will be national laws
6.) yes it can as long as its based on the nudity issue and not gender discrimination. again its all what the law allows
7.) not sure how you come to this conclusion why is it any different than a straight romantic opportunity and socializing, i dont understand what you are saying
8.) yes it would but again i have no clue how you arrive at the conclusion they cant co exist
9.) again depending on the law state doesnt need gay marriage to have anti-discrimination laws, colorado doesnt
10.) not true i dont know about flordia but yes may places and companies and states etc have martial status as a anti-discrimination group
11.) this is true of everything but the proper thing to do is always protect rights and equality. The rest you deal with later
Sexual orientation is inherently discriminatory, except for bisexuals. Law cannot change that no matter how it is written.
I see a problem with having "obscenity" criminal laws as a necessity to protect anti-discrimination laws. While a business cannot sell sex, it can sell settings for it. In my opinion should be able to too. I would not agree to outlawing group sex. Would you? What about then at vacation spots? Can there be a female gay swingers hotel of female gay swinger activities that they do not allow hetero, men etc to participate since they don't fit into the sexuality?
For example, is a prostitute - whether it legal or not - also committing a violation of anti-discrimination laws upon orientation by refusing to have gay sex or refusing to have heterosexual sex? It is "business" and such refusal would be "discriminatory" upon sexual orientation.
What about a personal's website that allowed people to select the race of the person they were looking to met?
Nearly all allow a person to select the sexual orientation of the gender they are looking for. Is that a business that is engaging in illegal discrimination - have segregation of people by orientation?
I just don't think when it comes to sexuality itself it can be as neatly regulated as you think without it in some regards becoming a new oppression, in the sense of "no, you can't have a setting for lesbian orgies because that discriminates against men and heterosexuals." Thus, it becomes sexual morality policing against gays claiming it is to protect them.
Can Hooters hire more women servers than men because only women have "hooter?" Can a strip club not have equal amount of time on the stage for men and women? Could a strip club refuse to allow gay strip-act routines? Does it have to have an equal number of hetero male stripper acts, hetero female-stripper acts, gay male stripper acts, gay female stripper acts, bisexual stripper acts and transsexual stripper acts? Or to not discriminate, not have any such acts at all, nor have any music or songs that taylor to an orientation? Do radio stations have to play romance songs in equal number that are about straight romance and gay romance?
Why can't a business cater to the sexuality of gays too? And that is what that hotel I referred to does, but in a different sense. The business is about female gay sexuality. So how does a man fit into that business without disrupting it on a sexuality level?
I think the hotel met the legally or ethical "rule" by renting us a room, although that isn't why she did. She did so because of my wife. And I don't think the proviso of "but he (me) can't go in the lesbian sexuality and romance area." Do you really disagree with that?
Legal absolutism "for the principle of it," can go too far.
Finally, just like there was (still is somewhat) affirmative action for African-Americans to allow "catching up," should there be a fashion of affirmative action for gays? There are virtually NO settings where heterosexuals are harassed or belittled by gays for being hetero. There are 100,000 places where gays are harassed and belittled by heteros because they are gay. In some settings and regions, if gays can't have their own place, they may have no place at all.
How many bars have "ladies night?" Do you think men then have the basis for a class action suit?
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I think the hotel met the legally or ethical "rule" by renting us a room, although that isn't why she did. She did so because of my wife. And I don't think the proviso of "but he (me) can't go in the lesbian sexuality and romance area." Do you really disagree with that?
Legal absolutism "for the principle of it," can go too far.
Finally, just like there was (still is somewhat) affirmative action for African-Americans to allow "catching up," should there be a fashion of affirmative action for gays? There are virtually NO settings where heterosexuals are harassed or belittled by gays for being hetero. There are 100,000 places where gays are harassed and belittled by heteros because they are gay. In some settings and regions, if gays can't have their own place, they may have no place at all.
How many bars have "ladies night?" Do you think men then have the basis for a class action suit?