Anyway. I don't see how your personal experience on the matter can influence this discussion. As I said, in such cases, personal experiences don't matter. You can't use them as leverage in a discussion because they're unverifiable.
I'm not saying that the majority of cubans hate the americans. I'm just saying that the fact that the US is treating Cuba like a pariah state... is kind of infurating and may cause some cubans a lot of anger. You can see how such a thing can lead to american tourists ending up in a situation they'd rather not find themselves in. It doesn't take a lot of angry cubans, just one.
And as I said before, I voted on the Yes: US should resume relations with Cuba... and not have this charade anymore.