That's one perspective. Another is the Democrats already negotiated to drop their 1.2 trillion dollar request down to the Republicans 980 some billion prior to the Republicans adding the defunding rider to the CR. Hence the stalemate, one side feeling they had a negotiated deal and the other saying it is time to negotiate. Such is life in Washington D.C.
Fortunately I have a king cab, room for both. Really though my dog points and fetches while my wife won't even fetch my slippers and the only time she points is when she is showing me things she wants done around the house.