Heck, it doesn't appear that they understand much.
I set it out in the beginning.
He should have a choice.
To ensure fairness he should also be given roughly the same about of time that she has to make the decision once informed.
Roughly 90 days.
Whether that be before or after the birth.
This ensures that she is not able to coerce him into taking responsibility by not informing him. Which oof course has to be taken into consideration in designing such law.