Huh??? On so many levels, huh???And Jews tended to live in Ghettos because they prefered them?
Yes all women staying home to raise their kids are doing so because they choose to! Certainly noone is forcing them! Perhaps some of the women working are forced to work out of financial necessity but no women are being forced to stay home.Your assumption is that they stay at home because they want to. The assumption is flawed, because many women are forced to choose between the two.
It still makes it a choice.Stay at home dads are quite rare, and very often a woman must pick one or the other. They may choose to stay at home, but that doesn't that don't also want careers. It just means that they are more willing to make sacrifices.