Yes, Should Be Fixed Price (Quebec)
Yes, Means-Tested (France)
No, It Should Not Be Subsidized
No. Kids suck.
But the abuses are what are costing millions if not billions to the US tax payer every year.
But, "I sit around on my ass and collect wic, ebt and whatever else is a hand out. No, you and your offspring can starve or start a garden to eat out of.
The OP is not someon is not someone that fits those catagories, he says he and his wife are working. But wont work "demeaning" jobs. And seems like wont take a second job either.
I have no sympathy for that.