Who said we were debating? You're offering up arguments in support of the benefits from losing your individuality and conforming to the group. You can't hope to pull me to your side using it as the basis of your argument. I'm far to much of an individualist to consider it as a acceptable argument.I have asked you questions which you won't answer... made analogies that you have ignored and searched your page for kids... I have no idea where to find that info. Anyway... debating with you is fast becoming a waste of time.