I voted #1, but because I am a male suspect my opinion on the subject lacks personal impact. I just see abortion being used as birth control in our society and I think that is wrong. It approaches murder in that respect. With all the birth control available, it is unconscionable. AS far as marriage goes, it is a legal contract, whether done in a religious context or not. Just ask your divorce lawyer. Doesn't make an iota of difference to a contract if it is between man and man, woman and man, or whatever, it is still just a contract. Love and marriage, milk and honey, and other dreams are susceptible to change. Ouch, you mean you might wake up from the dream. Damn straight.