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Would you marry a stripper?

Would you marry a stripper?

  • Yes, if I believed she truly loved me for me and not because I was saving her.

    Votes: 29 43.9%

  • No, nothing but trouble there.

    Votes: 37 56.1%
  • Total voters
    66
joko104 said:
Ah, but are you sure WHAT we are lying about? :cool:
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The fact that you would rather look at clothed women as opposed to unclothed women?
 
TurtleDude said:
you make a very good point that I agree with

there was this young lady I went to college with. she and I were pretty decent friends and shared a common musical interest. She was what you would call fairly pretty but not someone I had a romantic interest in. she was a hard core if not professional level ballet student who actually went into business making pointe shoes. Like most girls in my college she usually went to classes in stuff that wasn't exactly flattering, sweat pants or (the fad then-surgeon scrubs) loose jeans sweatshirts etc

well one day I was in the gym with the varsity team I was on and the coach asked me to get something that took me past the dance studio and "Liza" was there in a black leotard etc. I didn't give her much of a look even though the skin tight garment didn't leave much to imagination. She had a nice figure but nothing that made her stand out from the 20 or so other dancers. HOwever later, we left the gym at the same time and she had thrown on a really cute short dress over her tights and she looked really really cute.
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That also raises a good point that for a woman to seem uniquely beautiful maybe she also has to be distinct and ideally alone or in a small group. That is one purpose of clothing, which can greatly define, enhance or diminish attractiveness. For example, if the first time you saw her whether she was in an evening gown, casual jeans or pick hot pants could greatly define whether she was attractive and probably a permanent opinion of her.
 
ChrisL said:
The fact that you would rather look at clothed women as opposed to unclothed women?
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I don't know about that. Do you think MOST women select clothing to show off parts of her body or to hide parts of her body? A woman can lose 20 pounds if dressing right and a wonder bra can do wonders for appearances! ;)
 
joko104 said:
I don't know about that. Do you think MOST women select clothing to show off parts of her body or to hide parts of her body? A woman can lose 20 pounds if dressing right and a wonder bra can do wonders for appearances! ;)
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Well that depends, and I would say that MOST women probably do both.

Are you telling me when at the strip club, you were like "Hmmm, I wonder what they look like with clothes ON?" :lol: Sorry, it's just kind of humorous.
 
No I would not marry a stripper Spanky his wanke.
I would not do it on a plane or on a train in the rain.
I would not, could not on a boat with a goat.
No I would not marry a stripper Spanky his Wanke.
 
ChrisL said:
Well that depends, and I would say that MOST women probably do both.

Are you telling me when at the strip club, you were like "Hmmm, I wonder what they look like with clothes ON?" :lol: Sorry, it's just kind of humorous.
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Raised an interesting thought. I suspect you could tell a lot about the dancer by what she wore to leave the club and how she dressed when not working. Some would dress up like cheap street hookers and others you'd never guess what what she did for a living. Some even overdressed/covered up to seemingly try to hide her body.

Since it is her body generally and not face that really mattered, in a way what she wore (or didn't) defined her to others. Most weren't particularly attractive women, just very good weight control and knew the moves. The best physique for an exotic dancer is different than for the best centerfold in some ways. The dancers tended to be sleek, while porn more is about volumptousness. Huge boobs and exotic dancing do not go well together.
 
ChrisL said:
Well that depends, and I would say that MOST women probably do both.

Are you telling me when at the strip club, you were like "Hmmm, I wonder what they look like with clothes ON?" :lol: Sorry, it's just kind of humorous.
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Well, they do start out wearing something. It's an integral part of the act, and the appeal
 
At the club, other than rare exceptions, they did the classic pencil test. If a pencil put under her boob stayed there, she might make a great server with a push-up bra showing a lot of clevage, but it was no dice as a dancer.

Boobs are a terrible handicap for female athletes and she explained that as female competitors who started as children grew up, often their growing breasts literally made remaining competitive impossible. However, cosmetic surgeries for minors was extremely frowned upon, ie breast reduction. Until after her first child and nursing my gal was basically flat chested, which was a competitive plus.
 
sangha said:
Well, they do start out wearing something. It's an integral part of the act, and the appeal
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True. They do start off wearing SOMETHING. Like three eye patches. :lol:
 
I think this is funny, though - why marry? Why not 'date' - or 'get to know personally' or 'fall in love with'

Why marry? . . . no one jumps right to that unless they're drunk and in vegas.
 
joko104 said:
Raised an interesting thought. I suspect you could tell a lot about the dancer by what she wore to leave the club and how she dressed when not working. Some would dress up like cheap street hookers and others you'd never guess what what she did for a living. Some even overdressed/covered up to seemingly try to hide her body.

Since it is her body generally and not face that really mattered, in a way what she wore (or didn't) defined her to others. Most weren't particularly attractive women, just very good weight control and knew the moves. The best physique for an exotic dancer is different than for the best centerfold in some ways. The dancers tended to be sleek, while porn more is about volumptousness. Huge boobs and exotic dancing do not go well together.
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My friend who was a stripper is just an average-looking girl. You would never think she was ever a stripper. She always dressed like the rest of us did when not working.

Right, professional dancers (such as ballet dancers) are much more muscular and lean with very little body fat and normally very small breasts.
 
I would think that a lot of strippers probably do have some kind of professional dance training in their backgrounds, maybe as children. Hence the breast implants. :lol: My friend said she considered breast implants (although she was not that small, more average) because she said the girls with the biggest boobs made the most money. She never did though, which I think is a good thing. She looks just fine the way she is.
 
joko104 said:
Raised an interesting thought. I suspect you could tell a lot about the dancer by what she wore to leave the club and how she dressed when not working. Some would dress up like cheap street hookers and others you'd never guess what what she did for a living. Some even overdressed/covered up to seemingly try to hide her body.

Since it is her body generally and not face that really mattered, in a way what she wore (or didn't) defined her to others. Most weren't particularly attractive women, just very good weight control and knew the moves. The best physique for an exotic dancer is different than for the best centerfold in some ways. The dancers tended to be sleek, while porn more is about volumptousness. Huge boobs and exotic dancing do not go well together.
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Excellent post!
 
Black Manta said:
No I would not marry a stripper Spanky his wanke.
I would not do it on a plane or on a train in the rain.
I would not, could not on a boat with a goat.
No I would not marry a stripper Spanky his Wanke.
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:lamo You're good at those poems.
 
Gina said:
I prefer the Tom Jones version. :) Can't beat that brass.

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Of course when Tom Jones sang it live there was hardly a women left in the audience who hadn't thrown her undies on the stage.
 
Risky Thicket said:
Of course when Tom Jones sang it live there was hardly a women left in the audience who hadn't thrown her undies on the stage.
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He was the stuff back in the day. :D More of a silver fox now. :)
 
Gina said:
He was the stuff back in the day. :D More of a silver fox now. :)
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It's difficult picking up panties and hanging on to your stroller at the same time. ;) Good on Tom Jones. I'm not throwing any stones that Welshman.
 
ChrisL said:
I would think that a lot of strippers probably do have some kind of professional dance training in their backgrounds, maybe as children. Hence the breast implants. :lol: My friend said she considered breast implants (although she was not that small, more average) because she said the girls with the biggest boobs made the most money. She never did though, which I think is a good thing. She looks just fine the way she is.
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I've got to agree. I've seen some rather questionable results come out of skinny girls getting implants

If a woman obviously don't have the frame for D-cups, she really shouldn't tack them on for the Hell of it. It just comes off looking jarringly silly and unnatural.

Besides, women with more athletic builds generally tend to have other *ahem* assets which are frankly just as nice as a big chest (if not more so) anyway. ;)
 
joko104 said:
I worked at one for 12 years. A very large, crowded minority rough one. She pulled off the interstate in a driving nearly freezing rain in a Chicago fall into a very bad minority part of the city(she was on her Yamaha MC) pulling under a shop overhang across the street, saw me briefly outside, and decided to do a sneak-dash in past the door checkers. There was almost an immediate commotion over her - putting it into my job area - and approaching and seeing this cute little teen told everyone "get away from her, she's with me." They knew that meant back off.

I should have put her out of the club, but didn't, just too facinating I guess - a little white blonde in an all white Yamaha leather racing suit SO out of place, and parked her at the far corner of one of the bars telling a couple buds to look after her and "no booze." With it near closing time, and it now below freezing, with her still there. Just watching me.

Had her bike put in the back of the club and asked if she had taxi money. She said no. Offered her to crash at my flat across the street. We talked there. She told of herself openly. I was totally amazed. Never had a drink, or cigarette, didn't swear, never even dated and wanted to have sex with only one man in her life - after marriage. Perfect moral conduct and decency. I never knew anyone like her even existed. And I told of myself honestly too. Women. Liqour. Drugs. Violence. Crime. Party life. She never knew there were people like me. Ying and yang, polar opposites, infactuated with the reality of the other.

At one point in that first conversation, I said, "well, then you wouldn't marry someone like me, would you?" She dropped her head, was silent for a notable pause, folded her hands on her lap (later I learned she was praying), then looked up and said, "yes, all that was before me."

Damn! Had I just asked that little teenager who looked age 15 to marry me and she said yes?! I changed the topic. In fact, that is exactly how she took it. From that moment her goal was to make that happen, and for a year I was not going to be so low-life scum as to polute her with someone like trash-me, ruining her life doing so.

I could get sex from other women. I actually admired and respected her, and liked just being with. I didn't like otherwise being with other women, never did. She never complained of my being with other women. Just tried to figure how to get on my list - and I never ever willing to. It never occured to me I was doing anything wrong in promiscous sex. It was just sex. I had basically no moral code of any kind nor concept of one. But I would protect her.

So wouldnt I allow any other SOB to even get near her. She liked that about me. I assigned myself the role of her body guard - including from myself - exactly not what she wanted. She slept on the couch, asked me if I would like to visit her church that Sunday AM. I had never been to a church in my life and agreed...

She spent many a night on that couch and many a night sitting at the back corner of that bar. 6-7 years ago. She knew what I was, what I did. She saw it. And more heard about it from others there. Including women talking about having been in my bed.

A buddy warned me that she was the "most dangerous woman at the club." If you take one of the others for the night, you might wake up with your wallet gone, the police raiding for something she has in her purse, she might go crazy on you, an angry boyfriend or husband come gunning for you, or even get a disease. But with her, the danger is you'll wake up some day to a house full of babies and you having to get up just after sunrise for work or church. No more getting drunk, no more 'tokin, no more women. Still, he added that just one night of busting her might still be worth it.

That's what I finally decided anyway. Luckiest break I've had in my previously oft unlucky and troubled life.

That was 6-7 years ago. There are 4 children little in our house, and I do often get up shortly after sunrise for work and go with her with the children to church. I try very hard to understand what is moral and decent by trying to figure out her. And, curiously and part of her goal, she tries very hard to figure me out including to experience the vices of life. She was my rescuing little angel who dashed into hell for me - and I was the sort of demon she was looking for including for safe, skillful sinning.
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Okay... do they accept credit cards ( my dad will be getting a divorce ) So did you marry her ?
 
Un biased said:
Okay... do they accept credit cards ( my dad will be getting a divorce ) So did you marry her ?
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Exotic dancers particularly love credit cards.

Yes, married.
 
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