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Would you marry a stripper?

Would you marry a stripper?

  • Yes, if I believed she truly loved me for me and not because I was saving her.

    Votes: 29 43.9%

  • No, nothing but trouble there.

    Votes: 37 56.1%
  • Total voters
    66
The question terribly stereotypes of course. Exotic dancers - at least from what I know of them of women - are among the classiest and trashing women you could meet.

A better question is would an exotic dancer marry you? If you are a man and she a woman, you not only cannot be judgment or think you are doing her a favor, cannot be the jealous type and she her professional skill as worthy of admiration rather than something you will overlook, you are in general going to have to be fundamentally dynamic, very stable emotionally and financially, not a heavy drinker or doper, and likely will have to stroke her vanity often in positive and sincere ways.

The reason I reverse the question is because exotic dancers have NO problems finding, grabbing hold of and keeping guys. Not every guy is easy or will bite, put she'll have no problem finding plenty that will.
 
Medusa said:
yes ,love forgives everything ,but if it is not a love marriage ,maybe the woman has to be like a saint

:mrgreen:
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Marriage is a partnership and a contract, of which, love is one necessary component.
 
digsbe said:
Very very doubtful. I might marry an ex-stripper who repented and no longer strips. However, I do not see myself marrying a current stripper largely due to the fact that I suspect our values would clash far too much and that kind of person is not what I'm looking for in my future marriage.
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REPENTED???

Don't worry. With that comment no exotic dancer - current or ex - would touch you with a ten foot pole - unless you paid her - alot.
 
spanky said:
Breathing. Do I have to explain this?

Damn.
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I thought you meant still dancing and/or doing badly with her life...hence the term 'abusing'.


Your question is a waste of time and nonsensical...as you seem to be.


Have a nice day.
 
AlabamaPaul said:
What "kind of person" is a stripper?
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Probably someone who lives very sexually immoral.

joko104 said:
REPENTED???

Don't worry. With that comment no exotic dancer - current or ex - would touch you with a ten foot pole - unless you paid her - alot.
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I would not pay her, and if she has the view that there is nothing wrong with stripping then I don't want her anywhere near me on a relational level.
 
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spanky;1061708347[B said:
]Marriage is a partnership and a contract[/B], of which, love is one necessary component.
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l agree ,spankyy

but you said you asked about marriage ,not love

in fact not every marriage is built on love .
 
digsbe said:
Probably someone who lives very sexually immoral.



I would pay her, and if she has the view that there is nothing wrong with stripping then I don't want her anywhere near me on a relational level.
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What other professions do you have issues with individuals performing?
 
DA60 said:
I thought you meant still dancing and/or doing badly with her life...hence the term 'abusing'.


Your question is a waste of time and nonsensical...as you seem to be.


Have a nice day.
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That looks like an "uncle" to me.
 
AlabamaPaul said:
What other professions do you have issues with individuals performing?
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Prostitution, pornography, things I know are sinful. What's wrong with me having standards? I'm not judging the stripper, I'm just saying as far as my choice goes in marrying someone I have standards and I want them to have like-minded morals especially when it comes to raising children.
 
Medusa said:
l agree ,spankyy

but you said you asked about marriage ,not love

in fact not every marriage is built on love .
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They should.
 
At the end of the day its pretty simple. You don't want to marry a stripper? Fine, no big deal, don't, but who are you to judge the life they live.....

Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your own hands are clean.
 
digsbe said:
Probably someone who lives very sexually immoral.



I would pay her, and if she has the view that there is nothing wrong with stripping then I don't want her anywhere near me on a relational level.
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Same here. I don't go to strip clubs, and I'm not interested in hanging out with anyone who is imbedded in that scene and lifestyle. Not my thing, don't think too highly of it.


I realize that is a minority opinion these days... and I think a lot of you folks under 30 don't realize how much has changed and how fast, over the past 20-30 years. It wasn't that long ago that strip club patrons were generally viewed as perverts who should be ashamed of themselves, and society viewed strippers in much the same manner as prostitutes... especially since the two often go hand in hand.
 
digsbe said:
Prostitution, pornography, things I know are sinful. What's wrong with me having standards? I'm not judging the stripper, I'm just saying as far as my choice goes in marrying someone I have standards and I want them to have like-minded morals especially when it comes to raising children.
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So, people that support themselves in a profession with which you have moral issues, you would discard from consideration altogether
 
No. Firstly, I consider it a bad thing for my own family life. Second, there is no way I could tolerate knowing that people are becoming that intimate with my S.O. Third, the lifestyle is frequently to the high road of drugs and alcohol abuse. Fourth, my own professional life would be seriously compromised.
 
digsbe said:
Prostitution, pornography, things I know are sinful. What's wrong with me having standards? I'm not judging the stripper, I'm just saying as far as my choice goes in marrying someone I have standards and I want them to have like-minded morals especially when it comes to raising children.
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Don't be ashamed of having standards. Those without them tend to end up following the path of least resistance... right into the gutter.
 
spanky said:
Just askin'.
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I dated a stripper for a while. She was beautiful, intelligent, and working on a masters degree in English lit or something. Would I marry one? Maybe. I'd probably want to lie to my mom about what she does for a living, though.
 
Serenity said:
At the end of the day its pretty simple. You don't want to marry a stripper? Fine, no big deal, don't, but who are you to judge the life they live.....

Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your own hands are clean.
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I am me, and if I think something is bad I'm fairly sure I have a right to say so.
 
Goshin said:
Same here. I don't go to strip clubs, and I'm not interested in hanging out with anyone who is imbedded in that scene and lifestyle. Not my thing, don't think too highly of it.


I realize that is a minority opinion these days... and I think a lot of you folks under 30 don't realize how much has changed and how fast, over the past 20-30 years. It wasn't that long ago that strip club patrons were generally viewed as perverts who should be ashamed of themselves, and society viewed strippers in much the same manner as prostitutes... especially since the two often go hand in hand.
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This is a very narrow minded viewpoint with a lot of "ass"umptions thrown in to boot...
 
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