Yes, if I believed she truly loved me for me and not because I was saving her.
No, nothing but trouble there.
I think a greater "danger" of a relationship/marriage with an exotic/ex-exotic dancer could be very similar to an NFL/ex-NFL cheerleader or super model. That she has an ego off the charts. Plus her having confidence that she could replace you at any time without difficulty - and with many men offering.
there was this young lady I went to college with. she and I were pretty decent friends and shared a common musical interest. She was what you would call fairly pretty but not someone I had a romantic interest in. she was a hard core if not professional level ballet student who actually went into business making pointe shoes. Like most girls in my college she usually went to classes in stuff that wasn't exactly flattering, sweat pants or (the fad then-surgeon scrubs) loose jeans sweatshirts etc
well one day I was in the gym with the varsity team I was on and the coach asked me to get something that took me past the dance studio and "Liza" was there in a black leotard etc. I didn't give her much of a look even though the skin tight garment didn't leave much to imagination. She had a nice figure but nothing that made her stand out from the 20 or so other dancers. HOwever later, we left the gym at the same time and she had thrown on a really cute short dress over her tights and she looked really really cute.
I think you guys are lying.