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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    The logic is funny with some guys though. They go into a strip club, pay for lap dances, fall in love, and then get mad that the stripper doesn't love them back and then claim that she just used them for their money. Well DUH!
    LOL!

    Or the guys who go to the strip club - see their kid's teacher - and then pretends that it's a problem.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aunt Spiker View Post
    LOL!

    Or the guys who go to the strip club - see their kid's teacher - and then pretends that it's a problem.
    Well now, that's a little different IMO. I don't know how I personally would feel if I found out my kid's teacher was stripping. That is something I would definitely have to give some thought about.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    I disagree. I think the MAJORITY of guys know what's up and are there to have fun and to look at boobs, because guys like to drink beer and look at boobs.
    I did not say why the majority of guys go to exotic dance clubs - obviously to get drunk and look at naked women.

    I said (in essence) the majority of guys that get multiple, private dances (say more then 3) with dancers do not understand that most of the dancers are trying to get them to fall for them so that they will keep coming back for more. Most guys tend to think that when a woman is being nice to them that they probably like them. Dancers use this to try and extract more cash. Also, the more they can get a guy to have a 'crush' on them - the less dancing they have to do and the more money they get just for sitting around talking to these guys.
    These dancers realize that you cannot keep a guy hooked by being good looking as there will always be someone better looking to take the 'regular' away from you. But if you get them hooked emotionally - they will never stray as long as they think they have a chance with you.
    It's common sense.

    I spend MANY nights in those places back then and got to know a lot of dancers and patrons personally.

    I am not going to debate this with you - this was the case about 10-15 years ago.

    Though what it is like now - I do not know.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DA60 View Post
    I did not say why the majority of guys go to exotic dance clubs - obviously to get drunk and look at naked women.

    I said (in essence) the majority of guys that get multiple dances (say more then 3) with dancers do not understand that most of the dancers are trying to get them to fall for them so that they will keep coming back for more. Most guys tend to think that when a woman is being nice to them that they probably like them. Dancers use this to try and extract more cash. Also, the more they can get a guy to have a 'crush' on them - the less dancing they have to do and the more money they get just for sitting around talking to these guys.
    These dancers realize that you cannot keep a guy hooked by being good looking as there will always be someone better looking to take the 'regular' away from you. But if you get them hooked emotionally - they will never stray as long as they think they have a chance with you.
    It's common sense.

    I spend MANY nights in those places back then and got to know a lot of dancers and patrons personally.

    I am not going to debate this with you - this was the case about 10-15 years ago.

    Though what it is like now - I do not know.
    Well then those guys are idiots. If you are paying someone to be nice to you, then that is what you are going to get. And if you delusional enough to believe that is love or any other kind of emotional attachment, then YOU are the one with issues. I use "you" generally here, not talking about you in particular.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Well now, that's a little different IMO. I don't know how I personally would feel if I found out my kid's teacher was stripping. That is something I would definitely have to give some thought about.
    If it's ok for parents to go to strip clubs - then it's ok for teacher's to perform in one I wouldn't care . . . we've had some pretty ****ed up teachers doing ****ed up things to kids during school - and it's funny, none of them worked in a strip club.

    Morality can't be judged by your late-night 'sideline career' - as DaveFagan said: normal people have problems all the time. (of course - that's a loose paraphrase)
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Well then those guys are idiots. If you are paying someone to be nice to you, then that is what you are going to get. And if you delusional enough to believe that is love or any other kind of emotional attachment, then YOU are the one with issues. I use "you" generally here, not talking about you in particular.
    There's a centuries-old addage that many men tend to forget: "You can't make a hoe a housewife."

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    Well now, that's a little different IMO. I don't know how I personally would feel if I found out my kid's teacher was stripping. That is something I would definitely have to give some thought about.
    Given your super strict personal morality rules for teachers, that should be a no-brainer for you.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aunt Spiker View Post
    Morality can't be judged by your late-night 'sideline career'
    certainly in some cases it's a pretty powerful indicator.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by RabidAlpaca View Post
    There's a centuries-old addage that many men tend to forget: "You can't make a hoe a housewife."



    Given your super strict personal morality rules for teachers, that should be a no-brainer for you.
    I'm sorry, but I think that people who work with children should have to live up to high expectations.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by ChrisL View Post
    I'm sorry, but I think that people who work with children should have to live up to high expectations.
    Your christian expectations, maybe. There's nothing inherently immoral about stripping if it's what she wants to do. Though given your view with the former pornstar, you should probably also believe that any woman who has ever stepped on stage to strip, no matter how long ago it was, should be banned from teaching.

    Quote Originally Posted by DA60 View Post
    I did not say why the majority of guys go to exotic dance clubs - obviously to get drunk and look at naked women.

    I said (in essence) the majority of guys that get multiple, private dances (say more then 3) with dancers do not understand that most of the dancers are trying to get them to fall for them so that they will keep coming back for more. Most guys tend to think that when a woman is being nice to them that they probably like them. Dancers use this to try and extract more cash. Also, the more they can get a guy to have a 'crush' on them - the less dancing they have to do and the more money they get just for sitting around talking to these guys.
    These dancers realize that you cannot keep a guy hooked by being good looking as there will always be someone better looking to take the 'regular' away from you. But if you get them hooked emotionally - they will never stray as long as they think they have a chance with you.
    Strippers are actresses first, dancers second.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aunt Spiker View Post
    If it's ok for parents to go to strip clubs - then it's ok for teacher's to perform in one I wouldn't care . . . we've had some pretty ****ed up teachers doing ****ed up things to kids during school - and it's funny, none of them worked in a strip club.

    Morality can't be judged by your late-night 'sideline career' - as DaveFagan said: normal people have problems all the time. (of course - that's a loose paraphrase)
    Like I said to RA, I think that teachers and others who work with children should have higher expectations because of the simple fact that they work with children. I don't think it's asking a lot for a teacher to NOT be involved in the sex industry.

    Parents are adults and they are the parents of their children. When a teacher chooses to strip for a living, word will get out, the kids will find out eventually, and that doesn't make for a good "educational" environment IMO. This also takes away the "choice" for other parents who might have strict moral standards and who may NOT visit strip clubs.

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