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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dion View Post
    My thoughts ... working as an NP in ED and treating strippers and once renting a condo next to a group of strippers and conversations with men conned by strippers ... strippers are con artists.

    The entire method of making money is to lead some loser schmuck to believe she finds him special by asking his phone number and getting drinks and tips ... not on service yet on a false premise. I am female ...would any man here think it was a good idea if I dated a con artist male who preyed on women for chump change by conning affection and crude displays of sexuality?

    Any female who has the physical ability and decent enough appearance to strip can earn a decnt living in other ways.

    If they lead you to believe they have no other way to earn some chump change that is a lie.

    I know what strippers say about the idiots they con and I know most turn small tricks.

    Gyrating in a dark club and conning loser guys for bucks is base. if your self esteem is so low you only feel worthy of dating a stripper you have other issues.

    The only guy who should date a stripper is one who might say ... yea I date a con artist who thinks it is hot to take off her clothes and con men to earn what a waitress earns.

    Drugs, prostitution, ETOH abuse are the more wholesome activities that often go hand in hand with strip clubs ... it is the conning of the human soul that is the sickest part of their work imho.

    I put myself through undergrad and graduate school with respectable jobs and lived decently.

    C'mon fellas ... are you that stupid?
    Yes, most of us are.


    I agree with most of your post except there are some - granted, probably not many - who are decent gals.

    They simply dance for guys, tell them they are involved with someone else and will under no circumstances see a guy outside of the club AND they refuse gifts.

    They just make their money, do nothing extra and go home.

    Granted, they were usually the more attractive ones that frankly do not have to play the mind games you mentioned to make money.

    And they were definitely few and far between.

    But there are some decent exotic dancers - I actually briefly dated one like that (not that I was as good looking as she was...I hit way above my superficial weight during that relationship).

    She never tried to con anyone (that I heard) and had a great rep amongst the other dancers for being decent.

    But she was the exception.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DA60 View Post
    Yes, most of us are.


    I agree with most of your post except there are some - granted, probably not many - who are decent gals.

    They simply dance for guys, tell them they are involved with someone else and will under no circumstances see a guy outside of the club AND they refuse gifts.

    They just make their money, do nothing extra and go home.

    Granted, they were usually the more attractive ones that frankly do not have to play the mind games you mentioned to make money.

    And they were definitely few and far between.

    So there are some decent exotic dancers - I actually briefly dated one like that (not that I was as good looking as she was...I hit way above my superficial weight during that relationship).

    She never tried to con anyone and had a great rep amongst the other dancers for being decent.

    But she was the exception.
    Oh there is always the rare exception ... yet if she had so much going for her ... why would she have to take her clothes off and gyrate to make a living?


    Good point though on the rare exception.

    In bold of your post I cannot understand what you are conveying ...

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dion View Post
    Oh there is always the rare exception ... yet if she had so much going for her ... why would she have to take her clothes off and gyrate to make a living?
    I didn't say she was honorable for doing it. Just not out to trick or use guys.

    Now that I think about it - she only worked at the club on the weekends - she had a full time job otherwise.

    Also, the money back then was exceptionally good (no idea what it is like now).

    She would take home $4-500 a night for doing little more then parade around in her bikini, take it off a few times and be polite to everyone (which she was normally anyway).

    And at 24 she had a nice condo, a new, pretty nice car and no bills..and her day job did not pay that much.

    Honorable? Probably not. But relatively harmless, imo.

    She lied to no on, led no one on emotionally and no one forced these guys to ask her to dance for them.

    And btw, she asked me out. I actually had no idea she even liked me in that way before she did (we were friends first).


    Good point though on the rare exception.

    In bold of your post I cannot understand what you are conveying ...
    Lol - it was a joke...a baseball reference.

    'Hitting above your weight' means you are doing something better then you deserve to be doing.

    To put it another way - 'Looks wise, she was out of my league'.


    BTW - a really decent dancer I once knew gave me the best advice for guys that get hooked on a dancer.

    'Never ask a dancer out. If she wants you, she will let you know.'
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dion View Post
    Good point though on the rare exception.


    If this thread is representative of real life, then a significant portion of the male population has dated a stripper with a heart of gold who really cared about them
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by sangha View Post
    If this thread is representative of real life, then a significant portion of the male population has dated a stripper with a heart of gold who really cared about them
    ; ) Exactly!

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DA60 View Post
    I didn't say she was honorable for doing it. Just not out to trick or use guys.

    Now that I think about it - she only worked at the club on the weekends - she had a full time job otherwise.

    Also, the money back then was exceptionally good (no idea what it is like now).

    She would take home $5-600 a night for doing little more then parade around in her bikini, take it off a few times and be polite to everyone (which she was normally anyway).

    And at 24 she had a nice condo, a new, pretty nice car and no bills..and her day job did not pay that much.

    Honorable? Probably not. But relatively harmless, imo.

    She lied to no on, led no one on emotionally and no one forced these guys to ask her to dance for them.





    Lol - it was a joke...a baseball reference.

    'Hitting above your weight' means you are doing something better then you deserve to be doing.

    To put it another way - 'Looks wise, she was out of my league'.
    Ahhh Now I understand the hitting above the weight.

    Well you seem to know how the stripper interfaced with men even when you were not there. She must have been stunning and amazing to have you vouching for her character and honesty and out earning any stripper on just her beauty just by taking off her bikini. ; ).

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dion View Post
    Ahhh Now I understand the hitting above the weight.

    Well you seem to know how the stripper interfaced with men even when you were not there. She must have been stunning and amazing to have you vouching for her character and honesty and out earning any stripper on just her beauty just by taking off her bikini. ; ).
    I knew how she interfaced with other men because I knew her a long time before she asked me out AND other dancers (friends of mine) usually know how their co-workers behave -and they said she was straight as an arrow.

    Oh, and she did not out-earn al the other gals.

    She actually made less then many of the other dancers because she would not do extras or play the game...even though she was one of the better looking dancers (though definitely not the best) in the club.

    I was friends with a relatively average looking dancer who made about $800-1000 a night...but she (apparently) did LOTS of extras...and had LOTS of problems (5 children for one and a brute of a boyfriend for two).

    It seems to be an exotic dancer, the lower your self esteem, the more money you make.



    And, for the record, I never said the dancer (that I was referring to above) had either a heart of gold or really cared about me (nor did I say she did not - though I did end the relationship soon after it started).

    I simply said that she did not (to my or other dancer's in the clubs' knowledge, who I knew) either do extra's (sexual favors) or lead guy's on emotionally.

    And I think as long as you act like that, then you have nothing to apologize for (on that subject), imo.

    Again, it's not like anyone is forcing these guys to enter the club and pay their money for these gals to take off their clothes and dance for them.


    Lying/performing sexual favors is one thing.

    But simply exotic dancing (they hated being called 'strippers') while being friendly is something else, in my book.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DA60 View Post
    Oh, she did not out-earn other gals.

    She actually made less then many of the other dancers because she would not do extras or play the game...even though she was one of the better looking dancers (though definitely not the best) in the club.

    I was friends with a relatively average looking dancer who made about $1000 a night...but she (apparently) did LOTS of extras...and had LOTS of problems (5 children for one and a brute of a boyfriend for two).

    It seems to be an exotic dancer, the lower your self esteem, the more money you make.
    Yea ... I feel for anyone that has to take off their clothes for attention or money or any man that has to date someone like that. Well wherever you live those strippers outearn the strippers ten fold at any club in my city. Most earn at best 30 bucks an hour on a good night if they put their genitalia in mens faces and they are on tax payer medicaid for health care.

    If they were willing to put effort into the many skilled jobs in the city they could earn a fair wage yet would not have sloppy drunk guys telling them they were hot to feel good.

    Anyway to each his own and even though I personally would never find anyone as remotely attractive who did such (male or female) ... I think people should be allowed to do what they choose in life and clearly you are a male who did not mind and felt her word was trustworthy that she was different then other strippers in her interactions).

    I do not care what the guy looked like ... if he gyrated his penis for money and swore on a stack of bibles he was different then all strippers and never conned ... I would not find it attractive.

    Sounds like you hung at a unique club and felt you knew the people and trusted their stories so that is your experience.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dion View Post
    Yea ... I feel for anyone that has to take off their clothes for attention or money or any man that has to date someone like that. Well wherever you live those strippers outearn the strippers ten fold at any club in my city. Most earn at best 30 bucks an hour on a good night if they put their genitalia in mens faces and they are on tax payer medicaid for health care.

    If they were willing to put effort into the many skilled jobs in the city they could earn a fair wage yet would not have sloppy drunk guys telling them they were hot to feel good.

    Anyway to each his own and even though I personally would never find anyone as remotely attractive who did such (male or female) ... I think people should be allowed to do what they choose in life and clearly you are a male who did not mind and felt her word was trustworthy that she was different then other strippers in her interactions).

    I do not care what the guy looked like ... if he gyrated his penis for money and swore on a stack of bibles he was different then all strippers and never conned ... I would not find it attractive.

    Sounds like you hung at a unique club and felt you knew the people and trusted their stories so that is your experience.
    Well, when I went out with her it was over fourteen years ago and I was a semi-alcoholic and was soon to be a drug addict (I quit both over ten years ago) - so my perspective at the time was a little warped.

    That was also before the internet was really big, so I think dancers made a lot more money then - now, I think more of that money goes to internet pornography/cam shows/etc..

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DA60 View Post
    Well, when I went out with her it was over fourteen years ago and I was a semi-alcoholic and was soon to be a drug addict (I quit both over ten years ago) - so my perspective at the time was a little warped.

    That was also before the internet was really big, so I think dancers made a lot more money then - now, I think more of that money goes to internet pornography/cam shows/etc..
    I was thinking the same.

    Congrats on quitting habits that could damage your health.

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