What was your offense to her?I'll get over it one day.
Honestly, she can't even remember how many there's been. A really nice girl and will always have a special place in heart and God can give anybody a new start. In our hometown everybody knows everybody and I don't doubt for a minute she felt she had to move if she ever hoped to find a guy who wanted to marry her. In our culture I think we treat intimacy too casually and dump people who care deeply about us for the slightest offenses. The later treatment carries over into how many people treat marriage and we know the statistics with children caught up in the middle. I have two very good friends right now who are divorced and going through a divorce for the absolutely most ridiculous reasons I think is due to the throw away relationship mentality their exs developed prior to then carrying into their marriages.
More than anything else I know we have some little sisters here and just wanted to indirectly warn them not to treat themselves with anything less than the dignity they deserve or they can look back and see themselves in a similar situation wondering what have they done with their lives.