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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by upsideguy View Post
    Wow! You get my vote for Cynic of the Year.
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    Why not? They are likely to have realistic attitudes toward sex. Most USA women are not hookers, but want to know salaries, savings, credit cards, asssets, etc., when shopping for husbands. Others come into heat, get pregnant and have to get married, others come into heat and intentionally get pregnant to trap a hoosban'. Women in general are the main drivers behind keeping prostitution illegal and probably because it infringes upon their turf. It's a risk to marry a stripper, because the nature of their jobs makes them better at it if they are preoccupied with sex and seduction and old habits are hard to break. Taken as a whole, I think they are just as likely to be faithful as any other wife. That can be specifically translated to mean that they are not likely to be faithful, same as regular wife. I believe data will support those statements nearly 100%!"

    Wishful thinking! Cynic or realist. How long does the average marriage last? Is infidelity a problem? Truthful answers please.

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Peter Grimm View Post
    There you go. Good to see some actual men with balls still exist in America.
    I appreciate the compliment. It must be my good English again. But I live in Dardania, not America
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by calamity View Post
    Sounds like you are easily threatened sexually. Others seeing the body of some hottie I'm ****ing would be the least of my worries. Her getting drunk and dopped up on pills, and then smashing her car into an early morning commuter would top my list of concerns.
    What does "easily threatened sexually" mean in this context?

    Also it is not "some hottie" for then I would not mind neither. We are speaking of a future wife here aren't we?
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DDD View Post
    1. What does "easily threatened sexually" mean in this context?

    2. Also it is not "some hottie" for then I would not mind neither. We are speaking of a future wife here aren't we?
    1. Other eyes on the prize. Why would that bother you? It sounds like you are threatened by other men looking at what you got.

    2. I don't know...I haven't thought about it much since my take on strippers is that they are too high risk for LTRs. But, in the case of other men simply looking, and I was heavily involved with or even married to said person, I guess I couldn't care less. It's like when someone is checking out the wife at the beach. No big deal. My attitude on that is: "She's mine. Eat your heart out, Loser."

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    I would have to say, No, I probably would not.

    I dated some strippers when I was younger and really wasn't even thinking about marriage. But, in my experience, even the best of them tend to get into too much of the lifestyle and the environment they work in tends to affect their personalities and their value system. Maybe there are some who do resist these changes, but in my experience, they would be very rare birds indeed. Kind of like promiscuous women, they get into habits and I really don't see them breaking them.

    An ex-stripper? Maybe. Depends on the person. One I know is a very nice person and she also has turned around a lot of negative things in her life. Unfortunately, she also has PTSD or is Bi-Polar (depends on which doctor she sees) and has some serious mental issues so while she is nice to have as a friend, as a wife, no way do I want be around when she trips off the deep end or forgets her meds. BTW, her mental issues are not the result of anything that happened while she was stripping. I would say that it would depend totally on her personality, how she acts, and her ability to maintain her current moral values, it's not like I don't have some things in my past that a potential wife wouldn't like.

    Strippers, sluts (not saying all strippers are sluts here guys), and others that live or display a lifestyle that demonstrates low moral values, not while they are "in" that lifestyle. After they changed and have demonstrated that they really have changed, then maybe, depends on other factors.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by calamity View Post
    1. Other eyes on the prize. Why would that bother you? It sounds like you are threatened by other men looking at what you got.

    2. I don't know...I haven't thought about it much since my take on strippers is that they are too high risk for LTRs. But, in the case of other men simply looking, and I was heavily involved with or even married to said person, I guess I couldn't care less. It's like when someone is checking out the wife at the beach. No big deal. My attitude on that is: "She's mine. Eat your heart out, Loser."
    Trust me it entirely depends on the context and culture. When at the beach that is exactly my attitude also. Having her strip for others though (as a stripper wife would/should) is unimaginable though.

    Then you have cultures that if you do not look back at them for looking at what you got they may see it as a weakness or even as a sign that you allow them to advance. They may go like "Wow he is allowing me" and move in with more and more provoking attitudes.

    Other cultures may even kiss, hug, dance with what one has. I guess I would be alright with that in such a culture and appropriate context. But not in others.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DDD View Post
    Other cultures may even kiss, hug, dance with what one has.
    "What one has"... ouch. Possesive objectification much?

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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DVSentinel View Post
    I would have to say, No, I probably would not.

    I dated some strippers when I was younger and really wasn't even thinking about marriage. But, in my experience, even the best of them tend to get into too much of the lifestyle and the environment they work in tends to affect their personalities and their value system. Maybe there are some who do resist these changes, but in my experience, they would be very rare birds indeed. Kind of like promiscuous women, they get into habits and I really don't see them breaking them.

    An ex-stripper? Maybe. Depends on the person. One I know is a very nice person and she also has turned around a lot of negative things in her life. Unfortunately, she also has PTSD or is Bi-Polar (depends on which doctor she sees) and has some serious mental issues so while she is nice to have as a friend, as a wife, no way do I want be around when she trips off the deep end or forgets her meds. BTW, her mental issues are not the result of anything that happened while she was stripping. I would say that it would depend totally on her personality, how she acts, and her ability to maintain her current moral values, it's not like I don't have some things in my past that a potential wife wouldn't like.

    Strippers, sluts (not saying all strippers are sluts here guys), and others that live or display a lifestyle that demonstrates low moral values, not while they are "in" that lifestyle. After they changed and have demonstrated that they really have changed, then maybe, depends on other factors.
    if they are immoral ,you dont have to date them ...

    they are immoral but the guys who prefer dating them are never..

    haha

    decide

    you make generalizations and then claim it depends on their personality
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by ecofarm View Post
    "What one has"... ouch. Possesive objectification much?
    Went along with Calamity's "what one got" there.
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    Re: Would you marry a stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by DDD View Post
    Went along with Calamity's "what one got" there.
    Hah, I see.

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