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Would you marry a stripper?

Would you marry a stripper?

  • Yes, if I believed she truly loved me for me and not because I was saving her.

    Votes: 29 43.9%
  • No, nothing but trouble there.

    Votes: 37 56.1%

  • Total voters
    66
Nope. Them special areas are for me to see and be pleased with and no one else should have access to this privilege of mine.

Surprised to see the poll half opinioned about this really. Thought there would be more "Naysayers."

There you go. Good to see some actual men with balls still exist in America.
 
How many men here have patronized strip clubs? Uh, uh...raise your hands, sumbtiches. Damn near all of you. Of course you have. Oh, heyall yes, you have! Feasted your eyes and both your brains on the flesh of nekkid wimmins. Yes, you did. 'Fess up.

Other than your wife, how many men here have ever seen a nekkid woman, pictures or (hopefully) in the flesh? Every damn one of you. Every single one of you.

So, tell me, those strippers you slobbered all over; those nekkid wimmins you saw in the backseat when you were 16; those nude women you saw online and in Playboy magazine are somehow not as pure and righteous as you? Going to a strip club and looking at T&A is not nearly as horrible and immoral as being looked at in a strip club. You don't have to come to Jesus with your future wife about all the poontang you looked at, but by God she better never have shown her naughty bits to anyone. :roll:

Shame on all y'all who think that way.

Says a man, and "liked" by three men.

Male feminism at its best right here.
 
I don't really even consider strippers sex industry workers unless they're doing a little something on the side. It's really not sex, it's just slutty topless dancing, and you can see thongs and women topless on the beaches of Brazil. :shrug:

Yeah but they're not putting a dollar amount on their sexuality on the beaches of Brazil.

If a girl charges you $20 to get naked, then that's what it's worth.

I want a girl who's worth more than $20.
 
Nope. Them special areas are for me to see and be pleased with and no one else should have access to this privilege of mine.

Surprised to see the poll half opinioned about this really. Thought there would be more "Naysayers."

Sounds like you are easily threatened sexually. Others seeing the body of some hottie I'm ****ing would be the least of my worries. Her getting drunk and dopped up on pills, and then smashing her car into an early morning commuter would top my list of concerns.
 
l see many prostitutes as more respectable people than many so called gentlmen

and streaptease is not so different from prostitution in terms of the use of body to earn money .

l am not man but l know they turn into stone while watching them :mrgreen:
 
Wow! You get my vote for Cynic of the Year.

"Originally Posted by DaveFagan

Why not? They are likely to have realistic attitudes toward sex. Most USA women are not hookers, but want to know salaries, savings, credit cards, asssets, etc., when shopping for husbands. Others come into heat, get pregnant and have to get married, others come into heat and intentionally get pregnant to trap a hoosban'. Women in general are the main drivers behind keeping prostitution illegal and probably because it infringes upon their turf. It's a risk to marry a stripper, because the nature of their jobs makes them better at it if they are preoccupied with sex and seduction and old habits are hard to break. Taken as a whole, I think they are just as likely to be faithful as any other wife. That can be specifically translated to mean that they are not likely to be faithful, same as regular wife. I believe data will support those statements nearly 100%!"

Wishful thinking! Cynic or realist. How long does the average marriage last? Is infidelity a problem? Truthful answers please.
 
Sounds like you are easily threatened sexually. Others seeing the body of some hottie I'm ****ing would be the least of my worries. Her getting drunk and dopped up on pills, and then smashing her car into an early morning commuter would top my list of concerns.

What does "easily threatened sexually" mean in this context?

Also it is not "some hottie" for then I would not mind neither. We are speaking of a future wife here aren't we?
 
1. What does "easily threatened sexually" mean in this context?

2. Also it is not "some hottie" for then I would not mind neither. We are speaking of a future wife here aren't we?

1. Other eyes on the prize. Why would that bother you? It sounds like you are threatened by other men looking at what you got.

2. I don't know...I haven't thought about it much since my take on strippers is that they are too high risk for LTRs. But, in the case of other men simply looking, and I was heavily involved with or even married to said person, I guess I couldn't care less. It's like when someone is checking out the wife at the beach. No big deal. My attitude on that is: "She's mine. Eat your heart out, Loser."
 
I would have to say, No, I probably would not.

I dated some strippers when I was younger and really wasn't even thinking about marriage. But, in my experience, even the best of them tend to get into too much of the lifestyle and the environment they work in tends to affect their personalities and their value system. Maybe there are some who do resist these changes, but in my experience, they would be very rare birds indeed. Kind of like promiscuous women, they get into habits and I really don't see them breaking them.

An ex-stripper? Maybe. Depends on the person. One I know is a very nice person and she also has turned around a lot of negative things in her life. Unfortunately, she also has PTSD or is Bi-Polar (depends on which doctor she sees) and has some serious mental issues so while she is nice to have as a friend, as a wife, no way do I want be around when she trips off the deep end or forgets her meds. BTW, her mental issues are not the result of anything that happened while she was stripping. I would say that it would depend totally on her personality, how she acts, and her ability to maintain her current moral values, it's not like I don't have some things in my past that a potential wife wouldn't like.

Strippers, sluts (not saying all strippers are sluts here guys), and others that live or display a lifestyle that demonstrates low moral values, not while they are "in" that lifestyle. After they changed and have demonstrated that they really have changed, then maybe, depends on other factors.
 
1. Other eyes on the prize. Why would that bother you? It sounds like you are threatened by other men looking at what you got.

2. I don't know...I haven't thought about it much since my take on strippers is that they are too high risk for LTRs. But, in the case of other men simply looking, and I was heavily involved with or even married to said person, I guess I couldn't care less. It's like when someone is checking out the wife at the beach. No big deal. My attitude on that is: "She's mine. Eat your heart out, Loser."

Trust me it entirely depends on the context and culture. When at the beach that is exactly my attitude also. Having her strip for others though (as a stripper wife would/should) is unimaginable though.

Then you have cultures that if you do not look back at them for looking at what you got they may see it as a weakness or even as a sign that you allow them to advance. They may go like "Wow he is allowing me" and move in with more and more provoking attitudes.

Other cultures may even kiss, hug, dance with what one has. I guess I would be alright with that in such a culture and appropriate context. But not in others.
 
Other cultures may even kiss, hug, dance with what one has.

"What one has"... ouch. Possesive objectification much?
 
I would have to say, No, I probably would not.

I dated some strippers when I was younger and really wasn't even thinking about marriage. But, in my experience, even the best of them tend to get into too much of the lifestyle and the environment they work in tends to affect their personalities and their value system. Maybe there are some who do resist these changes, but in my experience, they would be very rare birds indeed. Kind of like promiscuous women, they get into habits and I really don't see them breaking them.

An ex-stripper? Maybe. Depends on the person. One I know is a very nice person and she also has turned around a lot of negative things in her life. Unfortunately, she also has PTSD or is Bi-Polar (depends on which doctor she sees) and has some serious mental issues so while she is nice to have as a friend, as a wife, no way do I want be around when she trips off the deep end or forgets her meds. BTW, her mental issues are not the result of anything that happened while she was stripping. I would say that it would depend totally on her personality, how she acts, and her ability to maintain her current moral values, it's not like I don't have some things in my past that a potential wife wouldn't like.

Strippers, sluts (not saying all strippers are sluts here guys), and others that live or display a lifestyle that demonstrates low moral values, not while they are "in" that lifestyle. After they changed and have demonstrated that they really have changed, then maybe, depends on other factors.

if they are immoral ,you dont have to date them ...

they are immoral but the guys who prefer dating them are never..

haha

decide

you make generalizations and then claim it depends on their personality
 
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"What one has"... ouch. Possesive objectification much?

don't see that as in any way worse than the long accepted admonition "dance with the one that brung ya"
 
don't see that as in any way worse than the long accepted admonition "dance with the one that brung ya"

Whatever. I go to nude beaches with girlfriends. And I gotta tell ya, I get as many looks as they. I find those opposed to nudity are usually not much to look at anyway (or worse).
 
Whatever. I go to nude beaches with girlfriends. And I gotta tell ya, I get as many looks as they. I find those opposed to nudity are usually not much to look at anyway (or worse).

Women dressed with Arabic clothing that cover everything up till their eyes like ninjas (or even that sometimes) also make me think that they are hiding and are not worthy of looking at anyway.
 
Women dressed with Arabic clothing that cover everything up till their eyes like ninjas (or even that sometimes) also make me think that they are hiding and are not worthy of looking at anyway.

Well, I don't think that's proper. People should be able to dress however they are comfortable, within public safety considerations.
 
I'm surprised there are so many men who have dated strippers...didn't know there were that many around.
 
Well, I don't think that's proper. People should be able to dress however they are comfortable, within public safety considerations.

Proper or not that is what so many layers of cloth between them and me makes me think.

What does public safety has to do with such clothing?
 
I'm surprised there are so many men who have dated strippers...didn't know there were that many around.

Meh. I've never dated one, but I have noticed that I tend to pick up quite a few phone numbers whenever I frequent those kinds of establishments. :mrgreen:

I'd imagine that it's not a terribly hard thing to find yourself pulled into.
 
Here's a question for stripper lovers, although I haven't been to one in several years where I live it's either just topless with alcohol or bottomless and dry.

Which for you?
 
Why not, it's college by day and stripping by night.
 
Whatever. I go to nude beaches with girlfriends. And I gotta tell ya, I get as many looks as they. I find those opposed to nudity are usually not much to look at anyway (or worse).


some women wearing bikini may get more looks than the nude ones

and you dont need teh nudity either as far as l see :lol:
 
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