It would be refreshing if the homosexuals would shift their focus from children's organizations such as the schools and Boy Scouts to adult activities such as the Rotary Club or Elks.
For some reason, I don't think we're going to see that shift in focus anytime soon.
If you build a man a fire, he'll be warm for a day.
If you set a man on fire, he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
Further - I am a former Boy Scout, as is my father (my scout master), as well as many members of my family. In total we have 6 Eagles Scouts in my family. I am also gay, and had I come out during the time I was a Boy Scout, I could have been kicked out of the scouting program. Although, that probably wouldn't have happen, given that the adult leaders in my troop also held seats on the local council, and I doubt they would have tried to discriminate against someone in their own troop.
Lastly, exactly why would that be "refreshing"? Do I or my family or my troop not exist in your world?