Our loved ones don't own us. If they can't deal with us as we are, they should go somewhere else.
"Loved ones" are often used as an excuse to shame people, even as far as guilting and bullying a suicidal loved one. You wanna talk about selfish? THAT is selfish, and unbelievably cruel as well.
No one's perfect. There are much worse flaws someone could have than a weird aversion to taking care of their health.
If Henrin wants to die young, that's his business, I guess, and no one really has any right to demand he not continue along that trajectory.