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Should childless couples be considered inferior?

Should childless couples be considered inferior?

  • Yes. Having children is a moral obligation to God/society/family/etc.

    Votes: 4 2.8%
  • No, they are free not to have children. They don't have to answer to anybody

    Votes: 105 74.5%
  • Not if they have reproductive problems.

    Votes: 1 0.7%
  • Yes, even if they have reproductive problems. They can adopt, you know.

    Votes: 1 0.7%
  • They should get a medal for lowering world population.

    Votes: 20 14.2%
  • Other

    Votes: 9 6.4%
  • I don't know.

    Votes: 1 0.7%

  • Total voters
    141
"Childless" is a lumping together of everyone who doesn't have children, but may in the future. This includes infertile couples currently undergoing some kind of treatment or attempting to adopt, people who never found a partner to have kids with, and people who are too young to have gotten to that point in their lives. There is no data on the "childless," because they are a million different things. You have to look at each of those things individually.

So you have no way of differentiating statistically between the child-less and the child-free when we discuss relative production (of goods and services, not children)?

But all things are not equal.

In measurement of a surety it can be - what we are discussing here is relative levels of impact. Raising a child typically produces a public good (a productive citizen). Provision of a public good compared solely to its' lack is a relatively higher level of social beneficence.

Childfree people have an entirely different focus and purpose in life.

Naturally, children tend to grab the focus and purpose of parents for 18-24 years or so. However I don't see much evidence for your claim that the focus of effort for the childfree has any particular reason to be devoting their lives to the good of others. (shrug) It may be some do, but there is no incentive structure or social/economic/legal demands that they do so, such as parents face. Those childfree who do devote their lives in some measure to serving others, it should be noted, are merely replicating the focus of parents (others vice self), not surpassing it.

I have already countered your claim that they haven't contributed enough

Which must have been ridiculously easy for you to do, given that I never made that argument. :)

Where is your evidence that the childfree are less productive? Especially since they are the ones pulling the shifts that parents have to miss.

Citing from earlier book (I know Redress apparently believes that nobody these days would be so neanderthalish as to put information in a book, but it is surprising what you can find when you read), and quickly pulling out the first stat that comes to my skipping-through-the-pages finger, for example, when one separates out the bottom 30% of the populace for productivity, we find that approximately one out of three males there have failed to form families (not "got married had kids then divorced", never got married and had kids in the first place). When we separate out the top 20% of the populace for productivity, we find that the comparative number is around 10% of the total. Chapter 8. :)
 
I did. :) Feel free to read the book yourself - it's a bit thick, but it is fascinating.

No you did not. You linked to an add. I am not running out and buying a book, nor am I taking your word for it's content. Linking to an add is not offering evidence. You have failed to offer evidence of your point being true. Hint: try google. If you are not willing to do the basic work, it is not my fault.
 
No you did not. You linked to an add. I am not running out and buying a book, nor am I taking your word for it's content. Linking to an add is not offering evidence. You have failed to offer evidence of your point being true. Hint: try google. If you are not willing to do the basic work, it is not my fault.

:) If you will look above, you'll note I pulled said book off my shelf and cited it. I linked to the book on Amazon in case one wanted to read reviews or get it themself. I know that you aren't going to go out and read a book - that would ruin your ability to try to strawman this debate into an ad sourcinem rather than the subject at hand.

This may be difficult to grasp for some folks today - not all information is on teh interwebz, and some of that information (i know, archaic) is found in books :). Which, apparently, people still do write. :)
 
:) If you will look above, you'll note I pulled said book off my shelf and cited it. I linked to the book on Amazon in case one wanted to read reviews or get it themself. I know that you aren't going to go out and read a book - that would ruin your ability to try to strawman this debate into an ad sourcinem rather than the subject at hand.

This may be difficult to grasp for some folks today - not all information is on teh interwebz, and some of that information (i know, archaic) is found in books :). Which, apparently, people still do write. :)

What part of "I am not taking your word for the content" too difficult for you. It is impossible to judge the validity without actual data. Most people, when they want to make a point on the internets, do some basic groundwork. That you have not is just a weakness on your part.
 
What part of "I am not taking your word for the content" too difficult for you.

:shrug: it's not surprising you wouldn't. You have a long history of accusing others of lying when they bring evidence you do not like to bear. However, until you are willing to purchase (or at least look at) the book itself and say "hey cpwill, you said X in Chapter 8, and it says nothing close to that", then you are left without much of a leg to stand on in that accusation. Accusation without evidence is simply ad hominem (to which, it is agreed, you are no stranger).

It is impossible to judge the validity without actual data. Most people, when they want to make a point on the internets, do some basic groundwork. That you have not is just a weakness on your part.

On the contrary, I actually research this stuff because it interests me. That you are unwilling to attempt to make or source a competing argument is telling of the weakness of your side of this debate. But, again, if you have anyone who has looked at the same data and come to opposing conclusions, I would be interested in seeing how they do so. I'm betting you don't, but then, I am interested in the actual subject at hand rather than trying to cover for a lack of background knowledge by attacking folks who happen to disagree with my preferred conclusions. :)
 
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:shrug: it's not surprising you wouldn't. You have a long history of accusing others of lying when they bring evidence you do not like to bear. However, until you are willing to purchase (or at least look at) the book itself and say "hey cpwill, you said X in Chapter 8, and it says nothing close to that", then you are left without much of a leg to stand on in that accusation. Accusation without evidence is simply ad hominem (to which, it is agreed, you are no stranger).

I did not accuse you of lying. I stated you had not provided evidence to support your claim. Nice try though. It is up to you to support your point. Saying "well gee, I read it in a book" is not supporting your point.

On the contrary, I actually research this stuff because it interests me. That you are unwilling to attempt to make or source a competing argument is telling of the weakness of your side of this debate. But, again, if you have anyone who has looked at the same data and come to opposing conclusions, I would be interested in seeing how they do so. I'm betting you don't, but then, I am interested in the actual subject at hand rather than trying to cover for a lack of background knowledge by attacking folks who happen to disagree with my preferred conclusions. :)

I do much research, and even look at sources that are not people telling me what I want to hear(that is one of our differences). I also would not use the claim that I read it in some book and expect any one to take it seriously. I would (gasp) actually look for information on the internet to support the claim. I do not expect other people to do my research for me, then berate them for pointing out my failings.

You also seem to fail to understand that I am not saying that the claim is false, only that without being able to look at the data, it is impossible to judge. Lord knows if I tried to source a claim I made with "well, I read it in a book", you would call me on it in a heartbeat, and you would be right. As much as you try and make this about me, it does not change the fact that you have not provided any evidence to back your claim. None, zero, zip, zilch.
 
without being able to look at the data, it is impossible to judge.
The "data" go back 25-30 years. It's a very well-known observation and an active area of research. Unless you want to write a PhD dissertation on the subject, a book (or two) just might be the way to go.
 
I did not accuse you of lying. I stated you had not provided evidence to support your claim. Nice try though. It is up to you to support your point. Saying "well gee, I read it in a book" is not supporting your point.

:shrug: citing a book is just as legitimate as citing a news source or an institute. Go open up any study you like you know what you'll find they cite? Written materials :). When I say "Hey, Murray points out in Ch 8 of Coming Apart that those who don't form families make up a disproportionate portion of the least productive members of society", and you wish to dispute that, you have to either A) dispute that Murray said that or B) dispute Murray's claim. So far you have done neither. Which is why this is an example of an ad sourcinem fallacy.
 
So you have no way of differentiating statistically between the child-less and the child-free when we discuss relative production (of goods and services, not children)?

My goodness. Can you read?

Yes, we can, because the childfree is one thing, and the childless are everything else.

In measurement of a surety it can be - what we are discussing here is relative levels of impact. Raising a child typically produces a public good (a productive citizen). Provision of a public good compared solely to its' lack is a relatively higher level of social beneficence.

I'm sorry, but a lot of these kids just aren't that special -- certainly nowhere near special enough to even begin to cancel out the worth of a lot of careers of childfree people I know. You have yet to give me any kind of reasoning why you think popping out yet another is one is so incredibly beneficial. In the mean time, I could be tearing away at this with what that one additional kid is doing in terms of consumption and pollution in the developed world.

Naturally, children tend to grab the focus and purpose of parents for 18-24 years or so. However I don't see much evidence for your claim that the focus of effort for the childfree has any particular reason to be devoting their lives to the good of others. (shrug) It may be some do, but there is no incentive structure or social/economic/legal demands that they do so, such as parents face. Those childfree who do devote their lives in some measure to serving others, it should be noted, are merely replicating the focus of parents (others vice self), not surpassing it.

No, they are most certainly not replicating parents. :lol:

Their world is much bigger. They have no desire to mimic such parochialism. If they did, they'd just have kids.

Give me some kind of evidence that the net effect of all these kids is positive no matter what, because I don't believe it for a second. I live in a world full of other people's kids -- I am one myself -- and let me tell you, an awful lot of them are not very useful. An awful lot of them 10 years my senior have yet to pay all these taxes your so damn worried about, yet I'll probably be doing it into my 70's with no interruption since I'm never going to abandon my work in order to go home.

Citing from earlier book (I know Redress apparently believes that nobody these days would be so neanderthalish as to put information in a book, but it is surprising what you can find when you read), and quickly pulling out the first stat that comes to my skipping-through-the-pages finger, for example, when one separates out the bottom 30% of the populace for productivity, we find that approximately one out of three males there have failed to form families (not "got married had kids then divorced", never got married and had kids in the first place). When we separate out the top 20% of the populace for productivity, we find that the comparative number is around 10% of the total. Chapter 8. :)

Your book has no validity if it doesn't separate out the childfree, which as I already demonstrated, is a recognized group that is different from the childless. As redress said, it's also a disingenuos way to propose evidence if I can only look at it separate from whatever "research" was done.

And by the way, lots of childfree people get married.
 
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Many couples don't have children for various reasons. Should they be considered inferior in society? :confused:

No. If anything they contribute more by not giving society more mouths to feed with tax money. It's all good and fine for people who can afford their decision, but for those who can't, children are a burden and a drain on society.
 
Society is comprised of people.

Yes, people who do things. If no one does anything, there's really not any society. So I still fail to understand how one argues that people are worth less despite doing more things simply because they haven't made more people.
 
People who have families don't do anything?

They do more of one thing, and less of other things. There's only so many hours in a day, and they have partioned X amount of theirs that a childfree person has not.

Also, people with children are not the only kind of "family."
 
Society is comprised of people.

At 311 million, I'd say we have more than enough people at this time. Kids these days don't even have ethics and morals indoctrinated into them, and they don't understand the satisfaction of work. They sit around and watch tv, or play video games, and have everything handed to them on a silver platter. They learn crap habits from the disturbing lack of parenting that has been plaguing this country for quite a while now, and grow into worthless adults who contribute only to themselves.

These newer apathetic and entitled generations are going to cripple our society, not strengthen it.
 
I don't use a capitalistic theory of society to determine a person's worth to me, I value people regardless of what they may have done for me or society. Even the meanest criminal or completely handicapped person, unable even to communicate with others, has value as a child of God.
 
I don't use a capitalistic theory of society to determine a person's worth to me, I value people regardless of what they may have done for me or society. Even the meanest criminal or completely handicapped person, unable even to communicate with others, has value as a child of God.

The problem is not in whether or not they have value as a child of God, but whether or not we can afford them. It's all fine and good to claim that people have value, and imo, they do intrinsically, but intrinsic value doesn't create a stable society that is sustainable, and where the rubber meets the road, it's meaningless if we can't sustain our society.
 
I don't use a capitalistic theory of society to determine a person's worth to me, I value people regardless of what they may have done for me or society. Even the meanest criminal or completely handicapped person, unable even to communicate with others, has value as a child of God.

I don't estimate worth on income either. A lot of the most dedicated people make beans.

But you're the one implying the childless/childfree have less value.
 
My goodness. Can you read?

Yes, we can, because the childfree is one thing, and the childless are everything else.

Well then that is a fascinating claim. I would love to see you statistically break down between the "childfree" and "childless" by productivity; especially given the heavy shifting between the two camps even as you describe them.

Instead what you seem to have provided thus far is A) the claim that the two groups are distinct by intent (which is possible) and B) your unsubstantiated belief that the child-free are inherently more productive than the childless.

I'm sorry, but a lot of these kids just aren't that special

On the contrary, an adult citizen is a fairly valuable thing. Interestingly enough, one useful metric here comes out of the medical fields. Standford Researchers say that the value of a year of life is $129,000. The British Transport Department says it's 30,000 GBP (about $45,000). Split the difference for $87,000 and multiply by the (say) roughly 55 years that a 22 year old college graduate can then expect to live once he or she has left his parents' protective wings and you get a rough worth of an adult raised citizen of $4,785,000. Heck, the low-ball estimate is still the value of a raised child at $2,475,000.

And while any individual child may be above or below that particular financial value to society, as a group they remain absolutely critical, and it remains absolutely critical that they exist in certain numbers. Societies that slip below replacement fertility rates slowly die. Or, sometimes, not so slowly. The point remains - raising a child produces a public good (a productive citizen) at private expense. Provision of a public good compared solely to its' lack is a relatively higher level of social benefit.

certainly nowhere near special enough to even begin to cancel out the worth of a lot of careers of childfree people I know.

:shrug: some, perhaps. However, I would be willing to bet, given the lower average lifetime productivity of those who fail to form families and produce offspring, that the careers of the childfree do not in aggregate top those of parents greater than the benefit of raised children. Some of the childfree may indeed dedicate their lives to others. In which case (again) they are replicating the decision of parents, not surpassing them.

You have yet to give me any kind of reasoning why you think popping out yet another is one is so incredibly beneficial.

The average citizen is net beneficial to society. Otherwise we would not be a society.

No, they are most certainly not replicating parents.

They certainly are. Devotion of much of ones' life to the service of others is precisely the parental role. To put this into the same terms as you have used, my unmarried / childless buddies spend lots of time playing video games (spending time on ones'self). I spend lots of time playing with or teaching my children (spending time on others). They spend their money on themselves. I spend mine on providing for my kids.

Their world is much bigger.

:lamo

All I can think when I read this is the SouthPark episode about College Know It All Hippies. :lol: "their world is much bigger" :mrgreen:

Give me some kind of evidence that the net effect of all these kids is positive no matter what, because I don't believe it for a second.

:shrug: see above. The Malthusian argument that additional citizens represent a net drain on a society has been disproven constantly since he made it.

Ask yourself the questions - do you intend to receive Social Security and Medicare benefits in your life? What generation do you suppose is going to pay for them? Are you bearing the burden of raising that generation? I'm willing to bet that the answers are yes, the ones behind you, and no.

I live in a world full of other people's kids -- I am one myself -- and let me tell you, an awful lot of them are not very useful. An awful lot of them 10 years my senior have yet to pay all these taxes your so damn worried about

FICA?

Your book has no validity if it doesn't separate out the childfree, which as I already demonstrated, is a recognized group that is different from the childless.

You have argued for a distinction without a difference, as you cannot demonstrate a difference in the relative productivities of the classes you have argued for.
 
sounds like one of my threads...lol...

is there really an obligation to have children if you can....

thats strange...
 
Well then that is a fascinating claim. I would love to see you statistically break down between the "childfree" and "childless" by productivity; especially given the heavy shifting between the two camps even as you describe them.

Instead what you seem to have provided thus far is A) the claim that the two groups are distinct by intent (which is possible) and B) your unsubstantiated belief that the child-free are inherently more productive than the childless.

Dude. I just posted 2 links. One which identified the childfree as socially unique, and one was a medical study that identified the childfree (childless by choice) as an ENTIRELY unique demographic on most metrics. It is not my fault you didn't read it.

What I actually said is not that the childfree are necessarily more productive; what I said is that the childless have a huge variety of other things going on, depending on why they are childless, that the childfree do not. For example, expenses on remedying their childlessness, or lower paid work due to young age, or divorce due to disagreements over children.

On the contrary, an adult citizen is a fairly valuable thing. Interestingly enough, one useful metric here comes out of the medical fields. Standford Researchers say that the value of a year of life is $129,000. The British Transport Department says it's 30,000 GBP (about $45,000). Split the difference for $87,000 and multiply by the (say) roughly 55 years that a 22 year old college graduate can then expect to live once he or she has left his parents' protective wings and you get a rough worth of an adult raised citizen of $4,785,000. Heck, the low-ball estimate is still the value of a raised child at $2,475,000.

And while any individual child may be above or below that particular financial value to society, as a group they remain absolutely critical, and it remains absolutely critical that they exist in certain numbers. Societies that slip below replacement fertility rates slowly die. Or, sometimes, not so slowly. The point remains - raising a child produces a public good (a productive citizen) at private expense. Provision of a public good compared solely to its' lack is a relatively higher level of social benefit.

The US is at replacement. So I don't know why you're worried.

A child is a public good. So are any number of others things a person may choose to do with their life. You can't simply ignore every other facet of life.

Also, societies that go below replacement do not "die." They experience temporary discomforts until the population stabilizes.

:shrug: some, perhaps. However, I would be willing to bet, given the lower average lifetime productivity of those who fail to form families and produce offspring, that the careers of the childfree do not in aggregate top those of parents greater than the benefit of raised children. Some of the childfree may indeed dedicate their lives to others. In which case (again) they are replicating the decision of parents, not surpassing them.

Once again, you are lumping the childfree and the childless together, and ignoring the fact that many childfree are in permanent relationships. Most that I know who are over 30, actually.

It is nothing more than your unsubstantiated opinion that their contributions don't "top" those who simply manage to not use birth control. Reproducing by itself is simply not impressive. Being an excellent parent might be. But the biological act itself is not.

Dedicating your life to others is not "replicating" parenthood. Parenthood is parochial. Much of the service work I and other CF people do is much broader -- for people we never have and may never meet. It comes from an entirely different desire and an entirely different social view. We may not have as much impact on each individual person as a parent has on their child, but such work influences the lives of a vastly greater number of people.

They certainly are. Devotion of much of ones' life to the service of others is precisely the parental role. To put this into the same terms as you have used, my unmarried / childless buddies spend lots of time playing video games (spending time on ones'self). I spend lots of time playing with or teaching my children (spending time on others). They spend their money on themselves. I spend mine on providing for my kids.

See above. This is simply patronizing ridiculousness.

Also, I find that kind of funny, considering a lot of work-from-home parents are getting laid off from places like Yahoo because they spent their work hours basically playing Farmville.

:shrug: see above. The Malthusian argument that additional citizens represent a net drain on a society has been disproven constantly since he made it.

Ask yourself the questions - do you intend to receive Social Security and Medicare benefits in your life? What generation do you suppose is going to pay for them? Are you bearing the burden of raising that generation? I'm willing to bet that the answers are yes, the ones behind you, and no.

I'm not arguing Malthus -- just facts.

Depends on what I make. Who is going to pay them? ME, after working for decades for the kind of hours most parents never will once they have children.

I am currently ensuring that generation has access to culture and social cohesion. I am anything but a "burden" to them.


Sometimes just unwillingness and no need to work.

You have argued for a distinction without a difference, as you cannot demonstrate a difference in the relative productivities of the classes you have argued for.

I have demonstrated the difference between the groups already multiple times.

Now, I'll get around to productivity, even as you continue to claim I haven't.

Career commitment, measured either directly or inferred from high levels of
education and occupational status, consistently has been found to be related to
voluntary childlessness for women (Bachu 1999; Jacobson and Heaton 1991;
Nason and Poloma 1976). Intentionally childless men appear to have more varied
levels of career commitment than their female counterparts or than fathers (Jacob-
son and Heaton 1991; Veevers 1980).

Studies have shown that overall, compared to parents, the voluntarily childless
are more educated (Abma et al. 1997; Bachu 1999); more likely to be employed in
managerial and professional occupations (Bachu 1999; Crispell 1993); more likely
to have both spouses earning relatively high incomes (Abma and Peterson 1995;
Bachu 1999); less religious (Heaton, Jacobson, and Fu 1992; Mosher, Williams, and
Johnson 1992); more likely to be only children or rstborns (Nason and Poloma
1976; Ory 1978); and less traditional in gender role orientations (Baber and Dreyer
1986; Callan 1986).

The entire thing is very interesting and it also explains -- AGAIN -- the childree and the childless are different.

Computing rates of voluntary childlessness is dif cult, complicated by the need
to distinguish voluntary and involuntary statuses, expected versus actual child-
lessness, and the existence of different marital statuses. The childless population
includes those who are physically unable to have children, those who are tempo-
rarily childless, and those who are childless by choice.

http://www.westminster.edu/staff/kpark/pdf/StigmaManagementamongtheVoluntarilyChildless.pdf
 
No. If anything they contribute more by not giving society more mouths to feed with tax money.

Society is feeding them? I thought it was the parents that were working their butts off to raise children and pay taxes along the way (consumption tax, VAT, etc)
 
Dude. I just posted 2 links. One which identified the childfree as socially unique, and one was a medical study that identified the childfree (childless by choice) as an ENTIRELY unique demographic on most metrics. It is not my fault you didn't read it.

No,

Your first link demonstrated through polling that some women wish to have children less than other women, to the point of virtual nil. This is not exactly groundbreaking astonishing research.

Your second link argues that women who choose infertility are A) distinguishable by their actions (they have had their tubes tied or taken some other form of birth control on a permanent/as-necessary basis) and B) are fine with their choice. Again, this is not exactly a huge surprise.

NEITHER of your links is able to indicate in any way a method (other than directly asking on an individual basis) out the "childfree" from the "childless" when taking a look at relative productivity of the citizenry.

What I actually said is not that the childfree are necessarily more productive

Forgive me if I have misread this, but that seemed indeed to be what you were suggesting, as you seem to be arguing that not only are they more productive, but that they are so more productive that they have equalled the lost production of child-rearing.

I would agree on an individual basis they are not necessarily more or less productive, which is why I prefaced my argument with "all things being equal". The evidence suggests that they are not, but you are insisting on teasing out a granularity that the data (as far as I have seen) cannot support.

The US is at replacement. So I don't know why you're worried.

:shrug: in a general sense, firstly because we are falling. The numbers of "childless" or "childfree" as a portion of the populace are increasing, not decreasing. So this is a trend with long-term damaging effects.

And secondly, because our social systems are set up in a pyramid scheme fashion. If we do not produce children above the replacement rate, we cannot sustain our transfer of wealth from the young to the old. This threatens both young and old - the old with reduced benefits, and the young with reduced opportunities.

A child is a public good. So are any number of others things a person may choose to do with their life. You can't simply ignore every other facet of life.

I would agree. That is why I prefaced with "all things being equal". :)

Also, societies that go below replacement do not "die." They experience temporary discomforts until the population stabilizes.

That is incorrect. Societies which dip below replacement have to see an increase in birthrate if they are to survive. In the meantime, many fewer young people have to take care of many more old people, which in turn reduces the ability to recover. Which does not happen as neatly as the original fall. As I understand it, no major society has ever recovered from a dip below 1.8. Though that is a measure that is about to be much more rigorously tested - Japan is facing a major crisis in the next 10(ish) years, and following them is most of Europe and China.

Once again, you are lumping the childfree and the childless together, and ignoring the fact that many childfree are in permanent relationships. Most that I know who are over 30, actually.

The number referenced (1/3) was of men age 30-49.

It is nothing more than your unsubstantiated opinion that their contributions don't "top" those who simply manage to not use birth control. Reproducing by itself is simply not impressive. Being an excellent parent might be. But the biological act itself is not.

:) I'll leave that decision to those who have actually gone through pregnancy and child birth. I rather suspect most of those women might think that your dismissal of what they go through is.... uninformed.

However, child-rearing, yes, is a socially positive act.

Dedicating your life to others is not "replicating" parenthood.

No, it is replicating the focus and service of parenthood. You are arguing that CF people can represent greater social value to the extent that they serve others - I am merely pointing out that that is precisely what parents do.

Parenthood is parochial. Much of the service work I and other CF people do is much broader -- for people we never have and may never meet. It comes from an entirely different desire and an entirely different social view. We may not have as much impact on each individual person as a parent has on their child, but such work influences the lives of a vastly greater number of people.

:lamo oh, S&M... i'm sorry but :lol: the breathtaking arrogance of this is.... well, it's the college know it all hippy episode.

Okay, look, this is a stupid game, because breadth of impact is not the same as depth of impact is not the same as raw total impact, and really I would bet that in those three variations the ability to differentiate between CF and CL is (just like productivity) nigh on nil, just as the idea that parents don't do those things as well is... well...

Okay, as a parent I have put a couple of dozen mass murderers in jail, and helped to secure a city of approximatley 300,000 people from a major terrorist insurgency. Hundreds of school children could travel back and forth from their houses to school safely whereas before we came on scene they couldn't as one metric. We went from 200 attacks a month with a casualty rating of about 1-3 per to 2 attacks a month with one casualty between them. I've done humanitarian assistance in Thailand, trained security forces in Kuwait, dammed up the Mississippi to protect Amish communities, aided flood victims in the Philippines, increased the ability of the South Koreans to protect certain portions of their populace, and helped the Japanese when a Tsunami wiped out their nuclear reactors. So I would put forth that I've had some breadth - my impact has been literally global. I would say that I've had some depth - people are alive today partly because of me. This isn't to be braggadocious, or try to paint some kind of awesome picture of myself - I'm not particularly unique in these regards. Lots of the vets in here will tell you similar stories. MANY have had greater impact. But if you want to try to tell me that "your world is much bigger" because you don't have kids? That you "influence a vastly greater number of people"?

I call BS, and BS of the most self-centered, ridiculous, hippyesque sort. This is the kind of ridiculous thing that people say right before they talk about how they are going to change the world through their drum circle, and it's crap that you, frankly, are much too smart to take seriously.

See above. This is simply patronizing ridiculousness.

no. Smarmy ideas about how people who don't have kids are living on some kind of higher plane where they have greater impact and live in a "wider world" than parents is patronizing ridiculousness. The fact that parents spend time and effort on their children is simply reality.

Aso, I find that kind of funny, considering a lot of work-from-home parents are getting laid off from places like Yahoo because they spent their work hours basically playing Farmville.

you'll get no argument from me that people are basically lazy. In fact, that rather underpins one of my points - that people are less likely to seek self improvement when they lack the motivation of having to provide for others.

I'm not arguing Malthus -- just facts.

On the contrary - you have demonstrated zero factual evidence supporting your implicit claim that people are not socially net-beneficial. The argument that they are not is indeed Malthusian.

Depends on what I make. Who is going to pay them? ME, after working for decades for the kind of hours most parents never will once they have children.

wrong. You pay for your parents. That's they way our system works. Each generation gets its' retirement income from the generations behind it. You don't pay yourself a dime of Social Security or Medicare benefit.

I am currently ensuring that generation has access to culture and social cohesion. I am anything but a "burden" to them.

I would agree that you are probably a net benefit to society. As are most folks. However, when you do start drawing on that generation, you will be a burden on them, a burden which you have not matched with your own effort. You (broadly speaking, not you particularly, but the CF who expect to receive retirement benefits) are expecting me to underwriting raising the next generation so that my kids can support your retirement. (shrug)

Sometimes just unwillingness and no need to work.

Which the CF are more likely to have than parents. Which is why we see such incredible divergence in productivity especially among men between those who raise children v those who do not.

I have demonstrated the difference between the groups already multiple times.

See above.

Now, I'll get around to productivity, even as you continue to claim I haven't.

I am interested to see it. :)

The entire thing is very interesting and it also explains -- AGAIN -- the childree and the childless are different.

It is interesting, and I appreciate how you also cite the authors' admission of the complexity and difficulty in drawing out the differences between the two. I'm not terribly surprised at the divergent results between men and women.
 
Society is feeding them? I thought it was the parents that were working their butts off to raise children and pay taxes along the way (consumption tax, VAT, etc)

As I've identified, it's the old Malthusian fallacy that people are net drains.
 
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